[huntergirl64]

On Friday afternoon I received an email from a friend. In her email, she accuses me of being a terrible friend and person, accusing me of not making time to spend with her, on and on it goes.

Now, this friend, has twice cancelled plans we've made, does not ever call, she expects everyone to cater to her and call her to make plans. She also didn't start wanting to spend time with me until her and another friend had an argument. She accused me of not including her in my plans, but when I have tried to she says she doens't want anyone else to do things with us, she wants just the two of us to spend time together.

I'm to the point where I'm just ready to say screw it to this whole friendship, and tell her to stay out of my life.

I don't think it's necessary to go to extremes. You might try just investing less in the friendship. If that doesn't work then yes I would end the relationship. Hope it works out for you.

Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret! Just ask all the friends I cussed out last night....sorry bout that yall.

[huntergirl64]

I did reply to her, asking why did she send this through email instead of sitting down and discussing it face to face.

I didn't lose it on her in my reply, but I did defend myself and point out the things she chose to ignore about our friendship.

[Trippin2.0]

My response would be 'Really??? Please look in the mirror and read your email out loud'...

Sorry, but your friends a self-centred biatch and she should be APPRECIATING you and not *****ing at you...

buuuuut, its not my friend, or my life, and I'm the one who's deathly allergic to BS, not you.

Maybe just take a time-out, and try having a talk when you're both calmer...

Don't hold back next time Trips

[Trippin2.0]

Originally Posted by George H.

Don't hold back next time Trips

You dear George, know me waaaay too well. But thats ok Thanks for noticing how composed and proper I behaved

[huntergirl64]

Well, I've pretty much told her I'm done with the friendship. Why she thinks that maintaining our friendship is my total 100% responsibility, I don't know, but I'm done with it.

[Trippin2.0]

Originally Posted by huntergirl64

Well, I've pretty much told her I'm done with the friendship. Why she thinks that maintaining our friendship is my total 100% responsibility, I don't know, but I'm done with it.

I know Idk you, but I'm damn proud of you,and I hope that's ok with you... Life's way too short to be letting others confuse us with doormats! s

[jennifersullivan]

dear huntergirl64,
sometimes people that are different from us do not understand what we are going through, they expect us to get better overnight... maybe your friend is having a hard time coping but they obviously care about you

[huntergirl64]

Thanks, it's nice to hear someone else would have done the same thing in my boots.

[Trippin2.0]

Originally Posted by huntergirl64

Thanks, it's nice to hear someone else would have done the same thing in my boots.

Great minds think alike