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Old Oct 11, 2014, 12:21 AM
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I don't know if I'm aloud to ask or post something like this, but I wanted an opinion.

I added new pictures of myself earlier and I wanted an opinion of what you guy's think of me. I don't want to seem like an attention seeker or fishing for compliments, but I get a lot of rude people telling me I'm ugly and unattractive, so I'm really cautious and insecure about putting my pictures on the internet because of negative feedback. Since it's been a few years since I've ever took any up-to-date pictures, I wanted to finally ask someones opinion on what I look like to them.

Here's a link to my new album:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=4153
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 01:59 AM
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You look great. Are you sure you're comfortable w/ posting pics of yourself here?
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 02:39 AM
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I see absolutely nothing to complain or worry about
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 02:52 AM
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You look great. Are you sure you're comfortable w/ posting pics of yourself here?
Yes, I'm more open to posting here than anywhere else. I feel safer or else I wouldn't post them up.
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 02:52 AM
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You look just fine and need have no worries on score of appearance, but I would be very wary of posting pictures of yourself on public sites.
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 03:42 AM
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Anyone who tells you that you are ugly needs a kick up the booty. You have a very friendly face.
As for posting pictures of yourself, if you feel comfortable than go for it, the only problem I have with posting pictures of myself is that I worry someone I know might somehow be on here too (and I hate the way I look). But if you want to share yourself with everyone here then go for it. Nobody here is going to tell you you're unattractive.
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 10:01 AM
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You are pretty and I like the second photo best if you decide to post. However, if you have reservations because some people you know are mean spirited, then you might want to take the safe route and post here. Mean people will say things that are not true just to hurt others. It is a strange phenomenon but it happens. JMO
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Old Oct 11, 2014, 10:13 AM
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You're adorable. People say that stuff to make you feel bad. That's all. They're scum. I used to get those comments all the time.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 08:48 AM
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I personally don't think you're "ugly" at all. Asking what people think won't negate the stuff people are telling you, because it's all an opinion; subjective. If some people decide to say you're this and that (negative things) then that's their opinion (and problem for being so rude, disrespectful, and tactless) not what everyone in the whole world thinks, as is evident here. However, you also have to take logic into account, here - people are going to feel compelled to say super nice things about you, out of a sense of obligation; they're going to feel like they have to.

In a nut-shell, there's only one sure-fire way to deal with this, and that's to learn how to be happy with yourself, not based on what other people think of you, but based on how YOU think of you. Learn to love yourself, physically.

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Old Oct 12, 2014, 10:54 AM
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I think you are a very pretty young lady. You also have a very kind and caring face.
Now me, I really am ugly.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 05:15 PM
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Adorable!

Please take down the pics, though. People will say things just to tear someone down for the fun of it. Trust me, I am a discerning person, and honest. You're adorable.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 05:28 PM
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You're cute -- and I also think you should take down the link. Someone from real life could find your posts here.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 07:09 PM
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you have great hair. i like the one you took through your tunnel. do you have 2 holes stretched on your ears? i have one right now at a 0, i've been considering stretching my second hole to a 0 and doing the first one to 1/2 inch maybe.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 07:13 PM
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you have great hair. i like the one you took through your tunnel. do you have 2 holes stretched on your ears? i have one right now at a 0, i've been considering stretching my second hole to a 0 and doing the first one to 1/2 inch maybe.
Thanks and yeah, the second one (above) is a 6g and the bottom tunnel is 1/2 inch.
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Old Oct 12, 2014, 10:01 PM
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i like how it looks. i haven't seen it on someone before so i wasn't sure. most people i know just have 1in and up. maybe i will try it out, i'm just not sure if i have enough room between the two. anyway, enough about me...you look great!
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Old Oct 13, 2014, 02:45 AM
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You look very cute really
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Old Oct 13, 2014, 05:19 PM
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1, you look fine. 2, there's nothing to be embarrassed about. 3, you seem a little overweight and this may be why, as you claimed, some people call you unattractive.
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Old Oct 15, 2014, 09:42 AM
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I think you are very pretty, I like the glasses...
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