Devil Child

I'm sorry I need to vent, but the little girl next door is the Devil. I know that sounds mean, but I never seen a child so evil. When she's outside, I stay inside because I can't stand her. I like kids, but she is so hateful towards people.

I sound like an awful person talking about a kid.

Can anyone relate???

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time with the kids next door

I am sorry you are going through this. You got to wonder what her home life is like to make her so mean to people.

Oh, I know her mom is young and she talks about everyone. There is always drama in their lives. Her mom beats up her aunt (the girl's mom's sister). Her mom is very critical about everything. She will call people names like "Oh, you're so fat that you broke the chair." So that's what the girl looks up to. The girl also tries to touch people in inappropriate places (like grab peoples butts). I considered calling CPS, but I know how CPS is from my past experience. They never saved me from my abuser. Her family is so dramatic.

Sorry for the little rant.

Actually, there's a kid in our neighborhood that I can't allow to play with our kids. Every time he shows up, a fist fight ensues because he can't control himself. He also wants to take everything we have; a shovel, garden spade, lawnmower, you name it.

He's not the Devil, but his parents certainly have failed to teach him basic interaction skills.

I know that's a tough situation... but... is there any way you can befriend her, safely? I wouldn't invite her in or anything like that... but maybe tell her how pretty she looks or something? She might not get any positive reinforcement from home...

Definitely sounds like her parents are not and have not taught her right from wrong.
Up bringing as a lot to do with how a person can and may turn out especially with kids.

As for yourself, I would try to give her a positive comment but only if you feel up to it. Otherwise take some time out from her or avoid her? I don't want you to be stressed and in turn cause other mental health issues to increase.

Sometimes troubled people are drawn to empathetic people for good reason. They want your help although it may not seem that way. Lead by example and show her kindness. Your guidance could make a huge difference in her life.