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Jul 15, 2016, 07:28 AM
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I honestly can't watch a pop music video without wondering if's its a stripper video or what honestly I came here to see if I still hated pop and now I realize I hate it because it capitalises on sexuality NOT talent and it makes me feel sick. Like we have these half breeds who auto tune and half of it sounds and looks like a ****in orgy. Call me sensitive but it is gross and metal is real music because it actually speaks about pain and what it is like to be a ****ing human being not these kim kardashian strippers. Honestly, milk on your boobs tacky and made me awfully uncomfortable. I will have respect for you once you have belief in creating music not ****ing porn for public consumption shame on you. Like I have lost belief in myself because I am not stripping naked to get cd and record deals and I honestly would hate if I had to feel this way the way the world is working is not working for me. Sex and the body used to be respected now it is flaunted and we feel as if we are not going to get attention unless we show our boobs and it makes me feel sad and angry. Honestly I think its ****ed up and would like men or someone out there for a change not put all there perverted feelings and intentions on me because it is hard to find anything normal anymore.
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 eskielover, IchbinkeinTeufel, Takeshi
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#2
Jul 15, 2016, 02:20 PM
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I don't understand you at times. If you hate pop, you can listen to different music styles. Why be so angry? And saying they sell their body for CD deals... You did the same being web cam girl and according to you it isn't even paid well.
I don't think anyone need to show their boobs to get attention unless you want specific kind of attention. What happened with volunteering with puppet theater you went to? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Jul 15, 2016, 02:43 PM
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If you don't like the videos don't watch them. It's that simple.
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Jul 15, 2016, 09:46 PM
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Yeah I know I am being hypocritical but I am not really happy about when I was a camgirl I thought that was me it clearly aint all I got is regret and I don't feel like I respected my body or my own boundaries.
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Jul 15, 2016, 10:06 PM
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Plus I am not angry I am disappointed in myself in how the world works the fact that I would somehow think that being a camgirl and feeling like I only had value if I showed tits. One thing I tell you I've learned is that the boys certainly gave me more attention and more money etc and I was clothed and they actually wanted it, they actually cared. What I learnt is I got more attention from boys and people for my actual talents then my body and being naked. So I am grateful for that lesson for teaching me that. However, I am disappointed in how I had to go about it to come to that conclusion
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Jul 17, 2016, 05:05 PM
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Entertainment is very sexualized. I try my best to choose content that is not overly icky, but it's not easy. Tacky and gross stuff is everywhere. Movies I feel have gotten better though since the Internet, cuz people can watch all the sex they want and it doesn't need to be in every movie anymore.
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Jul 17, 2016, 08:03 PM
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It's not all like that. There are plenty of talented people out there. I'd like to think I'm fairly decent at the guitar and last I checked, I've not been sexually exploited. xD But yeah, pop today, at least some of it, annoys me too. -_- Society in general, really. (again, part of it)
"Sex and the body used to be respected now it is flaunted and we feel as if we are not going to get attention unless we show our boobs and it makes me feel sad and angry." - TRUTH. xD Dunno if I'd say it used to be respected, though. Porn has been around for a long time. Perhaps people were just not so... loud about sexuality back in the day. I'd like a mixture of how things were and how things are, if I could choose. By the way, this happens to guys as well. Minus the boobs, obviously. Plenty of media pressure on guys. Absolutely. We've all gotta be big, muscular blokes all "alpha", never show weakenss, and RAAAAARRRRR
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| black-roses, eskielover
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#8
Jul 17, 2016, 08:15 PM
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I love Sia, and she doesn't even show her face!
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Jul 18, 2016, 03:10 AM
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#10
Jul 18, 2016, 04:35 AM
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I don't like pop either...but calling them "half breeds" is a little extreme... Everyone has different tastes. You know you like metal, so stick to that and don't bother with pop in future if this is how it makes you feel.
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| black-roses, IchbinkeinTeufel
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#11
Jul 18, 2016, 10:33 AM
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Try watching different videos, not contemporary pop. Tom Petty has done some excellent music videos. So many classic rockers have.
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| black-roses, IchbinkeinTeufel, lizardlady
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