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Oh hell no 21 42.86%
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 02:45 PM
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You know ... The flannel kind ....

Acceptable or not?

I ask because I can't stand it and my bf wears them to bed. Dunno if it's just me that has an aversion to his bright yellow Mr Happy with big smiles pants or what.
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 03:32 PM
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I answered hell no, but I don't really take it too seriously. I just don't think it's necessary. :P Plus, I love the feeling of the sheets on my skin. I stopped wearing PJs when I was a kid, ... if I even wore them as a kid. 'o.O I dunno, ... I know plenty of adults use them and stuff, but I just can't get it out of my head that blokes shouldn't wear PJs! I know it's not fair... but I can't help it. lol Damn the societal brainwashing. xD
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 03:33 PM
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I think some really look good in pajamas !
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 03:50 PM
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However they are comfortable is just fine!
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 06:07 PM
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No. You should wear melange grey longjohns as a man. Grey is the sleepiest color and longjohns are softer than stupid odd flannel. If it is cold you should also wear a shirt, a few sizes too big.

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Old Aug 11, 2016, 09:32 PM
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It's not really your place to tell a guy what he should or shouldn't wear to bed. He should have the freedom to wear what he's comfortable in to sleep.
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 09:48 PM
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Depends on the season. Pajama bottoms are not fashionable in the U.S. between Memorial Day and Labor Day. But any man who wears MATCHING pajama tops and bottoms at anytime, needs to grow up or move back home and sleep in his race car bed!
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 10:20 PM
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I think it sounds sexy, mr happy smile face pjs bring a smile to my face.
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 10:38 PM
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No never. I don't knock it if thats what a guy wants to do but for me
no never ever. I sleep in my underwear and nothing else unless its a
cold winter night then I wear a tee shirt and thats all.
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Old Aug 11, 2016, 11:22 PM
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No he should not.
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 12:05 AM
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I think they are cute.
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 02:40 AM
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It's not really your place to tell a guy what he should or shouldn't wear to bed. He should have the freedom to wear what he's comfortable in to sleep.
I've *never* told him my opinion.

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Old Aug 12, 2016, 02:48 AM
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I think it's up to what the man wants to wear. My husband who is gone now used to wear pajamas and that was fine with me. My first husband wore underwear and that was fine with me.
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I've *never* told him my opinion.

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Old Aug 12, 2016, 03:51 AM
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 06:05 AM
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I believe people - either gender - should wear whatever they want to bed.

Agree with Nammu that the smiley face pj bottoms sound cute.
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 06:08 AM
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Only Underoos. Superman only. =P
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 06:28 AM
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Only Underoos. Superman only. =P
Funnily enough, they still sell them. It's geared to adults looking for that nostalgia factor though. https://underoos.com/
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I don't guess I would care even though in my 64 years I've never had a man sleep in pajamas.

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Old Aug 12, 2016, 08:55 AM
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Ya know, my mom bought pajamas for my dad and he didn't use them once. So she used them instead. He prefers to sleep in a tshirt and underwear.
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It's a personal preference. I love pajamas or nightgowns. My husband is always hot so he would die in pj. He actually likes to wear nothing in bed just because he is always hot.

Why do you care? If he wore it while having sex then it would be weird lol but if just to sleep? Why does it bother you?



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Old Aug 12, 2016, 04:23 PM
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It's a personal preference. I love pajamas or nightgowns. My husband is always hot so he would die in pj. He actually likes to wear nothing in bed just because he is always hot.

Why do you care? If he wore it while having sex then it would be weird lol but if just to sleep? Why does it bother you?



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Cos for me, personally, it takes my libido from a 10 to a 0 just by looking at the fugly things
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Old Aug 12, 2016, 04:24 PM
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Cos for me, personally, it takes my libido from a 10 to a 0 just by looking at the fugly things
Uh, then tell him to take 'em off before having sex? That should fix your libido.
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Uh, then tell him to take 'em off before having sex? That should fix your libido.
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