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Old Nov 26, 2017, 03:28 PM
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Cep—thank you!

Jennifer— <blush> I was so distracted by the big weight loss I forgot to say that I am really sorry that the lap band is giving you troubles. I hung out with a nice lady in Mexico that was having hers removed, and she did just great too.

Yes, we will be thinking of you, tomorrow is it? And please tell us how you are doing when you feel up to it
(((((((( key tones ))))))))

(((((((((( Jennifer ))))))))))

Just want to give you a hug, for always being wonderful and thoughtful, no matter what you’re going through
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 03:43 PM
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(((((((( key tones ))))))))

(((((((((( Jennifer ))))))))))

Just want to give you a hug, for always being wonderful and thoughtful, no matter what you’re going through
You are such a sweet bear. Hugs back at you.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 03:56 PM
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You are such a sweet bear. Hugs back at you.


((( I can relate to your current siggy line, Don’t cling to a mistake just because you sunk so much time into making it )))

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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:04 PM
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I agree. It's really good. Best of luck Jen (and KT).
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:22 PM
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:26 PM
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(((((((( key tones ))))))))

(((((((((( Jennifer ))))))))))

Just want to give you a hug, for always being wonderful and thoughtful, no matter what you’re going through
(((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))

Love to you, my fuzzy friend. You were the first to reach out to me on PC

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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:31 PM
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I will do a drawing if you want me to, Cep. But something different, as yours really can't be improved.

I'll do a pen sketch of each of us. Or a comic strip. Or something.

If anyone wants to give me more idea what they look like, please do. (It doesn't matter, really).


Woot!! I can’t wait for more artwork
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:34 PM
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Oh boy...bear with me.

I just finished sorting out my potential monthly bills...one...hour...later.

Here is what I came up with...

$700 Rent (utilities are included)

$150 gas

$125 groceries

$80 for an internet+phone bundle with ATT

$40 for flea meds

$30 cat food and litter

$60 AAA (Between $700-800 yearly AND I have money ready to pay in full for 2018)

$20 Vet health exam and yearly shots ($225 yearly)

$10 for H&R tax stuff ($100 a year)

Grand Total

drumroll please

$1220 *faints*

Before taxes, I will only have $340 for myself for the month if I was to work 40 hours/wk on minimum wage

Before taxes, $700 for 40 hours/wk at $12

Before taxes, $1000 for 40 hours/wk at $15

I really don't think this is feasible. I will have very little to save, let alone for myself, and what happens if I get a flat tire or the cats get sick or some big emergency?

Yes, I have over $3000 tucked away, and if I am very careful I can buy the bare basics.

I feel anything but confident to talk to my parents. I still haven't had this discussion. I mean, I can't ask them to support me financially, and I doubt insurance will provide me with living expenses. What do I do? Do I give up? Go live with Mommy and Daddy for the rest of my life? :_(
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 04:40 PM
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...Do you think it'd help if I could save 15% or more on car insurance by switching to Geico?
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:03 PM
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I'm not giving up. I average $1000 a month into my savings with enough money for bills and mad money. And with my experience I am hopeful I will have a much higher starting rate than the minimum wage in Oregon.

Pt 2 coming up...going through my list of bare necessities and doing a tally. My goal is that with my grand total of the bare necessities I can tell my parents, it costs XYZ a month, ABC for bare necessities, and what I will have leftover for emergencies.

Wish me luck...if you smell something smoking it's just me using my brain!
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:05 PM
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...Do you think it'd help if I could save 15% or more on car insurance by switching to Geico?
I'm in England, so I'm afraid the figures don't mean much to me.

I'd suggest letting the figures settle for a bit and see how you feel about it all then.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:28 PM
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I just figured, if I can find everything on the bare necessity list for under $1500, I can still have $2000 for emergencies. I'm done thinking for the day. *brain sizzling and frying*
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:31 PM
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Don't fry your brain, Little Lark
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:31 PM
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LL—I hope things work out. I’ve been there. I eventually took a roommate in my first apartment, but she was a friend of mine so I knew her anyway.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:34 PM
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Time for more cat pics.

Bjorny—I can’t tell what color eyes Izzy has. I need a better look.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:37 PM
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Time for more cat pics.

Bjorny—I can’t tell what color eyes Izzy has. I need a better look.
Ooooooooooh. That face.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 05:40 PM
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Time for more cat pics.

Bjorny—I can’t tell what color eyes Izzy has. I need a better look.
Aww...beautiful.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:00 PM
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Thank you

Anyone else feel like posting pet pics?
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:09 PM
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Oh KT. You and your lovely singing. I can't say no to you.

I'll find one!
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:14 PM
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Here's me giving Salem a massage...with my feet! This was taken September of 2016

https://video.fsnc1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/...51&oe=5A1B7395
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:14 PM
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Time for more cat pics.

Bjorny—I can’t tell what color eyes Izzy has. I need a better look.
Aww! Adorable
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:20 PM
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Here's Evy's...tail....in action

Feb 2016

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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:21 PM
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PUD: I don't see why humans make such a fuss about alcohol. It has no effect on me.

PURPLE: You've fallen off the sofa.

PUD: What's a sofa?

PURPLE: It's the thing you love almost as much as Bed.

PUD: I do love bed. CARRY ME UPSTAIRS.

PURPLE: No. You'll be sick on my shoulder.

PUD: I will. (Laughs hysterically).
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:25 PM
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Here's Evy's...tail....in action

Feb 2016

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Aww...cute

My daughter thinks our cat believes that if she can’t see us, we can’t see her. She’s always “hiding” behind the beach towel with her tail <flipping with excitement because “prey” is about to happen by> and hindquarters hanging out.
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Old Nov 26, 2017, 06:27 PM
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PUD: I don't see why humans make such a fuss about alcohol. It has no effect on me.

PURPLE: You've fallen off the sofa.

PUD: What's a sofa?

PURPLE: It's the thing you love almost as much as Bed.

PUD: I do love bed. CARRY ME UPSTAIRS.

PURPLE: No. You'll be sick on my shoulder.

PUD: I will. (Laughs hysterically).
<snicker>

Awww...so cute! those paws!!
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