[BEBE186]

Black Stallion

On a black stallion he came out of the sea
And on that black stallion came to rescue me
And as the moon floated accross the sky
I watched him turn back the tide riding so high

Every girl needs her hero
Every girl needs her hero

From a black chariot he beckoned to me
He promise freedom and liberty
And as I walked he parted the sea
And he did it for me

Every gir needs her hero
Every girl needs her hero

[TaintedGoth1]

I was just thinking how songs like this put false ideas into our heads. I mean if you think about it, it gives the message that we need saved...or that we need a man...which I totally disagree with.

We are our own hero...and we don't need anyone but ourselves, right? I mean it's like that whole idea that we need someone else to complete us and we really don't....

I remember the most wonderful woman I have ever met. She was strong and a wonderful self-esteem and sense of confidence. She was an old T of mine...she wasn't married, all her children had grown, and she was happy living her life that way.

That's something I would love to do...just myself...being happy with myself. Ok...I've rambled on enough.

My point is that we don't need someone else to save us.

[ziggy1]

Yes Tgoth Co-Dependency isn't always the way to goo, it has its ups and downs.

My T is single, Independent, and all of her children are grown
too. Funny you should mention this. Although I do believe in
relationships to.

But the only one that can rescue you is yourself...

[BEBE186]

I suppose I am oldfashioned and like the idea of a happy ever after with someone.

You made me think though, and I believe that ultimately we are responsible for our own fate x