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Dec 03, 2009, 09:24 PM
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Horrible as it is and I see it in my visual - She bleed out in the hospital. The one who cause this - The one who gave her a case of beer on her 11th birthday - Started her path of drinking herself to death. Her liver had stopped working 4 years ago - But Brenda is a fighter. Several years back when this first happened she went into a coma for 5 weeks. The girl did not want to die and woke up. In her head she said the song Walking on Sunshine played as she was running through a fields of flowers. Face is what I, and the other two of my sisters, and the 1 -2 friends refer to the 'mother' as FACE was the one who gave Brenda the case of beer. And continued to make Brenda her partying buddie. Later in life FACE told her she was a low live waste of existence.... Brenda asked her 'why didn't you get me help' FACE did not reply - as she never does, unless to deny everything she put use through and allowed to have done to us. By pulling the plug FACE was in ecstasy as she had the POWER over another life and death. FACE pulled the plug and it took only 15 minutes to make that decision. It was the hospital that told 1 sister that they would keep the respiratory on until family got there and she had less than 48 hours to live. FACE nor Brenda's daughters ever contacted any of us.... What a spectacular feeling FACE must have... To be given that POWER, over another life or death. I used to wish FACE would pass horribly...all three of we sisters did. I am the oldest of four sisters. We are all two years apart. The sister just below me died today. But Brenda, Brenda a Heart of Gold -  BRENDA - she stayed true to FACE until the very end - BECAUSE she only wanted to have a MOM, that's why she couldn't give her up. Many a month or so before Brenda passed she actually stood up to FACE and said "I'm dying, you did this to me" OF COURSE FACE hit the road - until the next drama - oh she loves the drama. And she's so good at it....It's sickening. She fools people, and it's the soft hearted ones she does this too. She always kept it hidden from the world, but to we four girls we received the truth and when we tried to get help, to tell someone, to even runaway to juvenile hall ----- She convinced them we were lying or as for me I was sick in the head - crazy, and another she told others was a SKISOFRANTIC (spelling tough). EVEN now ----- all these years she tries to get a hold of our children to convince them she a good grandma and never did anything wrong. 3 - KNOW the Truth, 3 - Have FALLEN into her WEB. MY SISTER DIED TODAY
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 Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 09:35 PM
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Starlite I am so very very sorry. I wish you peace.
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| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 09:50 PM
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So
  Starlite*111Our heart goes out to you in your grief. With you, we just want to honour the very hard life of a sister who you cared for and loved as much as it was allowed. Despite all the complications of that life she deserves to be honoured today.You are to be so cared for too, Starlite, for all you have been through but for now we say we sit with you in this grieving time. Just know we are and join the others who are here for you. Be so kind to you.  Hunny  .
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 10:04 PM
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I am so very, very sorry about the loss of your sister.
I am confused about FACE. Is that one of your alters or somebody else? I read lots of your posts but can't recall. I'm having trouble remembering if you have alters. It is very wrong to give an eleven year old alcohol for sure but I think a lot depends on whether you have the genetics for alcoholism. Not an expert or even close about alcoholism. I was a binge drinker after I was introduced to alcohol by some State Troopers when I was a waitress at a party they had for a guy who was being transferred. Neither my mother's or father's side were big drinkers and I don't think I have the genetics for it so when I decided to stop drinking fifteen years ago I did. I think we need a lot more research and education about alcoholism. I don't know. You probably are numb after losing your sister. I didn't mean anything bad or hurtful. I am trying to help but don't know if I said that right. I am sorry she died. 
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| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 10:18 PM
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Quote:
FACE is the name of the birth canal where my sisters and I were birthed. FACE is the name for the one of whom should have been a Mother.  Her name is Another - FACE! Yoda, Face is the name that we call Judy who is our mother. But, she is not a mother, or a mother. But she is in fact a Mother F'r |
| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 11:19 PM
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I understand now, Starlite, why you would not call her mother.
I had a problem but different a few years ago and now can only refer to "her" as "Nanny" in that she is my son's grandmother. After what happened my mom is now gone in my mind. I apologize if I offended. Your anger make sense to me now that I understand.
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| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 03, 2009, 11:31 PM
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(((((((((((((((( Starlight)))))))))))))))))
my heart felt sympathes to you and your sisters as you grieve the loss of your remarkable sister. in my thoughts and prayers.............take care of you gentle hugs................be kind to yourself hun Mandy xx xx
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| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 12:22 AM
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Starlite,
My dear sweet friend, I'm so sorry about your sister Brenda. I grieve with you tonight as I read your post. I'm here to support you and listen on PC. Know that you are loved. I'm sorry for all your saddness. You cheer me up with all your caring. I can just hope you will grieve and feel peace. Hugs and more hugs.
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| Anonymous29357, Hunny, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 04:01 AM
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I am very sorry for your loss!
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 06:10 AM
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Star, I am so sorry your sister passed away. As I read your post about your biological incubator, I could not help but notice how similar our female parental units are...thus the bond we share. Sending you cyber hugs.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 08:39 AM
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Starlite, that's really sad, I'm sorry. I know you had only just gotten your sisters back a few years ago...keep reaching out to us. We're here for you.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 08:51 AM
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Starlite,
I wish I could give a big, long, wrap around hug right now. I have tissues and would give you some if you wish to cry as you mourn the loss of your sister. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm here for you. Much love, notz
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 09:50 AM
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 Dear Starlite - I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. I know the pain of losing a sibling to the ravages of alcohol. Please take extra care of yourself because death has a way of opening old wounds. I wish you and your loved one strength in this difficult time
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 10:20 AM
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Starlite, I'm sorry to hear about your sister. I know you'll keep her flame alive. As long as you live your relationship with her will survive, and whenever you hear that song, your sister's enjoyment of it will always be part of it the music. It's a good song.
Lots of love to you right now -- Mike
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 10:38 AM
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oh honey I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could take all the pain away.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 11:45 AM
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(((((((((((Starlite)))))))))))))) I'm so sorry to for you.
I'm here if you need me.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 04:12 PM
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(((((Starlite)))))
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 04:30 PM
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Very sorry for your loss. ((((((( starlite ))))))))
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 05:30 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Starlite))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 07:49 PM
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i am so sorry for the loss of your sister.....your post was heartbreaking but the love for your sister shines through......let's hope that she is in peace now.....
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 07:56 PM
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"A mother's love is among the most powerful forces in all of life, no less potent withheld than given."
Robert Eversz sorry for your loss both your sister and the mother you never had.
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Dec 04, 2009, 08:09 PM
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Tears and more tears
 ((((((( Starlite! )))))))
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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Dec 04, 2009, 08:49 PM
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| lynn09, perpetuallysad
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Dec 04, 2009, 09:23 PM
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(((((((((((((((Star))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry 
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Dec 04, 2009, 09:49 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Anonymous29357, lynn09
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