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Mar 29, 2010, 03:38 AM
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Just a quick note........
My sister passing has finally caught up with me Dec 3, 2009 Going through some kind of stuff..... Do you know - NOT HERE - That NO ONE people world - Ever once asked me how I was doing? Not Once. Now that it is hitting me. I'm asked what's wrong. "My sister things is hitting me now" Their response "That was a while ago, yeah December. You got to let it go". HOW BOUT ME LETTING MY STEEL TOED COMBAT BOOTS 'GO' SOMEWHERE THAT PERHAPS THEIR BRAIN IS LOCATED.   Get this - they lost their 32 son over 20 years ago and she still says "God took the wrong son" AHEM......................
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Mar 30, 2010, 11:17 AM
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 starlite 111I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear sister. (I lost a sister a few years ago- I was 35 she was 50-- it was very hard) When "reality" finally hits -- no matter when that is-- it sure can be rough. "letting go" should be on your own schedule-- NOT on anyone elses..... and the process is individual as well. Please be kind to yourself at this tender time. fins |
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Mar 30, 2010, 11:22 AM
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There is no time table for grief. It runs it course differently and individually. I'm sorry it's still fresh and I empathize with you Starlite.
 Is it getting any easier for you? I hope time is kind to you and she will be in more peace as your grief lightens. Be kind to yourself Starlite.
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Mar 30, 2010, 04:34 PM
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"When we fall in love, we slip into feelings of oneness and completeness; our aching comes to rest. And when we lose our beloved, we plunge into an emptiness and insufficiency like nothing we have ever known before." –Divine Madness: Archetypes of Romantic Love by John Ryan Haule
Though this quote deals with romantic love I think it can easily apply to the love we have for those who have been a part of our life including the love you have for your sister. The pain you have now is a testament to the great depth of love you have for her. I wish you peace. |
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Mar 30, 2010, 06:21 PM
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I'm so sorry that it's taking it's toll on you just now, there is no timetable for it to affect you and hit you. hang in there, sending comforting hugs and prayers.
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