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i had a message saved in my voice mail for four months from my daddy. it was one week before he passed. it said, "hey, kim. this is dad. give me a call when you get this. i love you."
i saved it. i was saving it forever. i felt like i could still give him a call. i could hear him say he loved me as much as i wanted to. it's gone... just gone.
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he really wasn't dead as long as i had that. it's gone. he's gone. i'll never hear him again. he really did love me. i know he did.
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Oh Kim, I'm sorry.
It's like losing him all over again, I bet. Type those words exactly as you remember, print them out on some nice paper and frame them. It might help a little. Take care, Petunia |
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not all over again. as long as i had that i never lost him. now, he's gone from me forever. it hurts so bad.
i'm sorry.
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((((((KimmyDawn)))))))
I'm really sorry. |
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thank you
((((((((((((((Petunia))))))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((((((jax))))))))))))))))))))
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thank you (((((((((((((susan)))))))))))))))
kd
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Kimmy,
I had a similar situation that happened this spring, I had an answered message on my answering machine, dad left for me, and by accident I erased all messages, I was so upset, I cried too. It was their since 2002, the yr he passed away. Some hugs for you and wishes for better days to come. Love, DE
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((((((((((((((((Kimmy))))))))))))))))))
Im sorry your having to relive this pain. |
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kimmy, i am so sorry for your loss. i can't imagine losing something as precious as that....xoxo pat
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((((((((Kimmy))))))))
So sorry ![]() -Jennifer-
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((((((((((((((((((((((darkeyes, jen, pat & jennifer)))))))))))))))
thank you so much. it was so painful to know. it's still so very painful to think about. petunia did something very wonderful for me, though, that i can print out...she reminded me that i can always talk to him, even tho i'll never hear that one-of-a-kind voice (he was a marine corps drill sergeant for a while...lol) again. thank you so much. four months later, i'm just beginning to feel the full grief of my father. kd
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I am sorry Kimmy. I had a similar experience as well. My answering machine had a message from my family. it said this is the home of..... One day one of the kids made a new message and erased the one that had my deceased daughter's name on the message. It was pretty sad. He is still with you, I believe it. Just for laughs, the other thing was that my daughter was disabled and incontinent. We used to throw her briefs down to the cellar to a big can at the bottom. One got under the stairs and it was there in the basement. I left it there when I swept and cleaned and one day hubby found it and was so disgusted and angry with me for leaving it there. I was upset that he threw it away. Snot that he was. Feel better please kd. Love you.
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(((((((((((((((((((((((ww))))))))))))))))))))))))
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((((kimmy))))
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thank you (((((((((((((((bebop)))))))))))))))))
how are you doing now? kd
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I can truly relate to this. I lost my dad last year and am having a very hard time dealing with it.
I hope things get easier for you as time progresses. |
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((((((((((((((((( Kimmy ))))))))))))))))))
You're dad's still with you in your heart. I'm sorry you're feeling the pain over again ![]()
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thank you so much ((((((((((((((jagster)))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((((((silver)))))))))))))))))))))))
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