[vanna123]

Three years ago my mom was diagnosed with cancer. The doctor gave her less than three weeks to live. Our whole family got together and a miracle arrived -- our mother was accepted into a trail treatment program that worked.
Our mothers cancer went into remission - mind you she was never the same with the side effects of the treatment but she was here.
The other day she collapsed and the doctors found cancer somewhere else, there is no cure and our mother no longer has the fight to live.
They moved her to a hospice facilty yesterday and gave her a few days.
I am not ready. I know God already gave her to us for three extra years but I am not ready.
This is the lady who saved my life -- when my family was abusing me and destroying me she took me in to her family and her family became my family. she is now also my mom and I am not ready to say goodbye to this mom and I need help.

((( vanna )))

I'm sorry to hear this sad news.

Please talk to someone at the hospice, they have counselors there for the family members to talk with.

They are very helpful.

If you have a T you need to be in close contact to help you get through this.

Also maybe an online grief support website might be helpful.

Take care...

http://www.beyondindigo.com/

[vanna123]

Thanks for the support and the assistance