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Sep 18, 2006, 09:14 PM
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i need some advice.... on my bio father's obituary these a place where u can write things to him as if u were writing him a letter or something...... well i want to write something on it.. and i told my mom i wanted to and she said id rather you not....... i told her i wouldnt but i stil want to.... whats ur opioin
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Sep 18, 2006, 09:33 PM
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You mean online? If online, be careful what you post...it will always be there. I think you care about her wishes or you wouldn't have asked? If you just told her and want to ...then you still could I guess.
I think you could write him a letter and put it in his hand or take it with you to the service... he isn't there...but with you...but maybe by writing it that will help you be clearer. 
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Sep 18, 2006, 09:33 PM
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((((((((((( Skittles )))))))))))
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. Why does your Mom not want you to write something? Is she your bio Mom? I'm a bit confused. Hugs, Jan
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Sep 19, 2006, 02:57 AM
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I am sorry about the loss of your father. I know it always hurts to lose someone you love. I agree with SKY about writing something personal like that online. If that is your only choice and may not be a good one for you, just writing a letter to him may help you alot. Sometimes putting your feelings and thoughts into words helps whether they are read by anyone else or not. My belief is that your Dad will hear the words no matter what!
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Sep 19, 2006, 06:22 AM
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i never met my bio father...... he didnt want anything to do with me..... i wanted to write something so my half brothers and sisters that i never met could see that he has other kids cause i dont even know if they know about me and my sister... but my mom said she rather me not..... im not sure why
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Sep 19, 2006, 10:05 AM
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I would ask your mother to help you figure out some other way you can get in touch with your half-siblings if that's what you want, rather than go through your dead father? She might not be as "upset" about your wanting to let your siblings know you exist as about bringing up her past with your father. In any event, I'd discuss things with your mother, being considerate of her feelings though to not discuss your father's and her relationship especially now at this already-trying time of your father's death..
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Sep 19, 2006, 11:47 PM
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never met my bio mother or father
always wanted to!!!!!!! i wanted to let them know but im not sure... skittles you are not alone!!!!!! Milly
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Sep 20, 2006, 03:11 AM
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You have explained the situation a little more now! I did not realize you did not know your father. And now I understand your mom feeling the way she does. If you want to meet your dads children your mom may be able to help you to do that in a way that wont bother her! But developing a relationship with your siblings could help you fill some real voids you feel from not knowing your dad! Good Luck
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#9
Sep 20, 2006, 04:35 AM
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Hi Skittles. I think you should follow your heart here. IMO you are entitled to convey what you feel to this online thing. Good luck. TGC! dottie
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