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Old Oct 08, 2013, 05:45 PM
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I lost my girlfriend and I have been unable to get the help I need. She has been gone for over 3 years now and I have lost everything. I lost my job, and now I'm getting close to losing my house.

My girlfriend was the only friend I had and I have tried to reach out since then and because I live in a small town and everyone knows what happened, no one will help me. I have no resources, no friends, and my family has just given up on me. Please help me someone, I want to recover and live I just need other people to want that too.
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Old Oct 08, 2013, 06:14 PM
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Sorry about your losing your girlfriend. Have you checked into finding a counselor to help you get past this pain. Once you get past the pain you can start to see the future in better light. Starting here is a good move, since you can share are receive feedback and support. Glad you found PC
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Old Oct 08, 2013, 06:27 PM
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I am so sorry you are experiencing so much. As gayleggg suggested, you should see counselor if you have not already. Losing someone so close like that will always be tough and I am experiencing that now.
I know it may seem so difficult but I like to think that the people we lost really don't want to see us this way. I'm sure your girlfriend would want you to be happy and I hope you can take some steps to getting here. Welcome to PC, we are here to help as we can
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