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Old Dec 01, 2013, 10:59 PM
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She was killed seven months ago, and I never cried until tonight... I was reading through some emails, looking at pictures, and it all just hit me again. It's like I just woke up and realized she's gone. What do I do?
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Old Dec 02, 2013, 09:42 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. There is no easy way to get past grief except to go through it. There are stages of grief and you must go through all until you get to the other side. I would suggest grief counseling to help facilitate your healing.
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Old Dec 02, 2013, 02:12 PM
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Cry it out! It's ok! Do something that u did together with her before. Remember happy times! She will always be in your heart!

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Old Dec 03, 2013, 09:00 AM
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Crying is the best thing you can do right now.
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Old Dec 04, 2013, 04:54 PM
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Crying is the next step for you seeing as you couldn't cry up till now. Everyone has different ways of coming to terms with the loss of a loved one. In time you will remember the good times you shared together, and there is great comfort in that. Best Wishes.
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