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Old Apr 10, 2015, 07:08 PM
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My sister-in-law called today. My father-in-law, aka Papa, died yesterday. I've been missing my mom and Hubby this week. This just tore the scars wide open. I thought I was coping with all the old grief stuff okay. I guess not.
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Old Apr 10, 2015, 07:23 PM
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Liz, I am so sorry for your grief and vulnerability. My parents are old and fragile. One strong wind could blow them over.

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Old Apr 10, 2015, 07:28 PM
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Old Apr 10, 2015, 07:40 PM
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Old Apr 10, 2015, 10:28 PM
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Oh LizardLady I am really sorry for your pain.
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 11:49 AM
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LizardLady, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know there's not much anyone can say to make it better for you. Just know that you have so many people here who care about you and are here for you.
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 11:53 AM
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 11:55 AM
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 02:49 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss L
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 07:53 PM
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Old Apr 11, 2015, 11:08 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss too.
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Old Apr 13, 2015, 02:59 AM
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I'm sorry Liz
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