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Old Apr 25, 2014, 01:15 PM
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Today is the saddest day of my life... My parents just called and informed me that my younger brother has died. They found him laying on the kitchen floor when they arrived at the little beach shack last night and believe he passed away yesterday morning He had been ill with the flu and not feeling well these past couple of weeks, reason why I mainly delayed my visit with him this week. He was the kindest soul, so caring & supportive, and so loving; always helping everyone else - especially me He looked like my twin.. orange hair freckles and all. Just crying now...
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Old Apr 25, 2014, 01:30 PM
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I'm so sorry, that's awful. Please be gentle with you during this time.
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Old Apr 25, 2014, 01:42 PM
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Old Apr 25, 2014, 01:56 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss, I have lost 2 brothers and I know how much it hurts
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 08:47 AM
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Oh Pikku, I am so, so sorry. I know you're probably tired of hearing it, but for the pain you're going through, having gone through it myself (and knowing others here have gone through it)... I am so sorry. Please try and take care as best as you can. Allow yourself to grieve. <3
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 09:51 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. How sad.
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 10:11 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Old Apr 28, 2014, 12:17 PM
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Pikku, I am so sorry that you have lost your brother. Dont be hard on yourself at this time Pikku. Take care. Talk soon.
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Old Apr 29, 2014, 02:48 AM
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I am sorry for your loss
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Old Apr 29, 2014, 03:46 AM
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I'm so so sorry for your loss, he'll be forever in your heart, take care of yourself.
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Old May 07, 2014, 11:33 AM
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I am just now understanding he is gone Like not here as a human being... It will be two weeks tomorrow. Never felt this lost and empty before. Just miss knowing he is not here
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Old May 31, 2014, 01:04 PM
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Old Jun 01, 2014, 10:24 PM
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My sister died six years ago. It took me a long time to realize she wasn't going to walk through my front door. Don't rush yourself as you grieve. Also be gentle with yourself as you go through this.
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Old Jul 10, 2014, 03:24 PM
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I feel so sad and alone now. Tomorrow, July 11 is the official memorial service from my brother in Finland at 14:00 Eastern EU Time. I was supposed to fly over with his ashes and could not do it. I sent a package. We already had a private service at the beach and it is just all coming back now. I feel very sad, alone, scared, ashamed... basically confused.
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Old Jul 10, 2014, 07:30 PM
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I am sorry to hear about your brother. Please be extra good to yourself and hang in there. Let yourself grieve for as long as it takes.
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Old Jul 13, 2014, 09:39 AM
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I don't know how I missed this when you first posted. I'm so sorry about your brother. How are you doing now?
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Old Apr 24, 2015, 08:22 AM
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Today I am having a quiet moment to remember my younger brother He turned into a bright star one your ago. I miss him so much, but know he is in a safe place now.
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