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Next week is my mom anniversary of her passing.
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Dear Buffy01,
I am so sorry for your loss and for the burdens that fall upon you this time of year. Wish I knew what to say that would be helpful to you! Sincerely yours, Yao Wen |
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#3
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Anniversaries are hard, especially those so close to holidays.
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I’m sorry for your loss and it may help to celebrate her life by eating her favorite meal or food or doing a favorite activities of hers during the holidays.
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It's okay to shed a tear my friend, I'm so sorry about your mom.🙏
If it's a clear Christmas eve night, perhaps go out under the stars and ask for a sign. It's funny how the spirits may respond sometimes . 🤗🌠🌠🌟 |
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@buffy01 I am sorry for your loss. It is difficult to lose someone around the holidays. Every time the holiday rolls around is difficult.
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#7
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I feel really down this time of the year.
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That true. I just thought it would be different after all these years.
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I pulled out my Christmas tree and turn on my Christmas lights. Christmas is my mom favorite holiday.
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That true. I been feeling really down.
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I watch Christmas movies and listen to Christmas music for my mom.
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@Buffy01 glad you watched Christmas movies. There are lots of fond memories in them.
Christmas for me is not the same. I did talk with a couple people but the joy of Christmas will be when I talk to the grandchildren. I think the kids are the ones that really get excited. Now that I am over 50, I just do not feel like a kid anymore.
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@Buffy01 I hear you. Many millions of people had a different Christmas this year. I was among them. I remember my dad and all he taught me and gratitude helps assuage the pain.
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#16
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I'm working on practicing gratitude.
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#17
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Yes it is very hard.
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