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Old Dec 19, 2015, 04:21 PM
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My mom passed away last night!!! I'm completely destroyed!!! I don't know what to do!! She was my everything!!! My father passed away four years ago and I still haven't gotten through that, but this.... This is too much!! I just want to be with her, with my parents!! There's nothing left for me here!!
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Old Dec 19, 2015, 07:01 PM
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I'm so sorry! I know your pain. I promise, it gets better. Right now you feel lost and the pain is so new and acute. Losing a parent leaves a void. With time your pain will lessen and you'll remember the happy times more than her death. Hugs and prayers to you xx
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Old Dec 19, 2015, 07:25 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Hugs and warm thoughts going to you.
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Old Dec 19, 2015, 08:14 PM
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I am sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my dad last year and I am lost with out him
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Old Dec 19, 2015, 08:18 PM
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Blackraynebow... I am so sorry for your loss. It is difficult to lose a parent much less two. (((hugs))) You will get through this, it will take time but trust me you will. In the meantime know that we are here for you. I lost my dad 3 yrs ago. His birthday is dec. 24th. And my mom is failing. You are in my prayers, keep posting, we are here for you.
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Old Dec 20, 2015, 01:31 AM
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Thank you all so much for your much needed support! To those who lost a parent as well, my heart goes out to you!!! Hugs & Love
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Old Dec 20, 2015, 04:59 AM
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hi blackeye ,
I feel for you too. I lost my mother it will be six years in March . I was devastated when my mom died . my father made me watch her dying six years ago in the hospital critical care unit . I was lost without my mom until my former choir director told me it was time for me to go back to counseling. I went back to counseling and my counselor is a great help to me . I finally accepted my mom's passing . so I feel for you blackeye . my next door neighbor s mother just passed away too
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Old Dec 21, 2015, 12:27 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss
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Old Dec 27, 2015, 08:52 AM
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I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. You need time to grieve over such a loss. I wish you peace!
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Old Dec 27, 2015, 09:19 AM
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You are in my thoughts. Sending light your way and wishing you peace in this troubling time.
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Old Jan 02, 2016, 05:28 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Mothers eyes are how you first saw the world. Losing them is hard. Stay safe.
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