My Mother passed away back in November. Yesterday my Dad went to a memorial service held by the hospital in which she passed away in, I told my dad that I did not want to go and now today he is pressuring me to go to the graveyard, for the sake of my mental well being I do not want to go near the hospital or the graveyard but my dad does not seem to get it. Basically I am tired of being pressured right now and I don't know what to do because now he's really mad at me and I feel like a bad daughter.

[Dinah9517]

You mustn't be/feel pressed into anything. Do what you want, for yourself & provided it's for all the right reasons. My Dad died Jan 2015 & am still not over it as we had that special Father/son relationship. Smallest of things can trigger the most profound emotions 'specially as I'm now the only one left of my family on that side. I'm not even sure that "time heals" so I think you need to get selfish & do what you want for your benefit. Things will come out in the wash. Meantime give me a shout if you want.