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Old Jun 16, 2016, 10:19 PM
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*just woke reliving the Hospital Emergency ward the night my girl died. What do you call that anyway, a dream? a nightmare? a flashback? And why?? What's the purpose in reliving it all anyway? DOESN'T CHANGE ANYTHING!!! Makes me soooooooo angry, & scared, & lost & sad & alone. Now i'm crying. This sucks!

And how selfish am I acting all wounded when this happened to my girl? on my watch? Wish it would go away.

Tidal wave of debris

Guess i should get up, light a candle for my girl. Don't wannna be awake today.

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Old Jun 17, 2016, 07:36 PM
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Hello Bithiah24: Welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I offer my condolences on your loss. I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!
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Old Jun 18, 2016, 10:12 AM
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You are not being at all selfish. Dealing with loss is a massive suffering in its own right. Someone I cared for deeply passed away 6 weeks ago and I am also struggling with not wanting to be awake, sleeping absurdly long hours and at odd times too.

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Old Jun 21, 2016, 02:52 PM
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Hey Bithiah. Sorry for the loss of your girl. That must be very sad for you. Nightmares and trauma are connected together. The nightmares do help us face emotions that we have difficulty processing.

This article speaks about this more. How to Eliminate Recurring Nightmares | World of Psychology
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