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Dec 29, 2017, 02:23 PM
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Me and my boyfriend decided that we couldn't afford a kid, so I went ahead with an abortion. It's been 2 days and I'm still finding myself crying about it. My boyfriend is also very sad about it. I keep wondering if I will ever forgive myself...I was just trying to do the responsible thing.
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 CANDC, Skeezyks
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Dec 29, 2017, 03:28 PM
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I'm sorry you are hurting. Hugs.
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Dec 29, 2017, 04:44 PM
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    Here is a link to an article from PsychCentral's archives on the topic of abortion, grief & the recovery process.. Perhaps it may be of some help: https://psychcentral.com/lib/underst...overy-process/ I wish you well...  
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Dec 30, 2017, 05:11 PM
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Thank you...
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Jan 08, 2018, 08:46 PM
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Hi annxo. Sorry for the sadness you feel. It was a difficult decision but it may have been more difficult further down the road if you could not handle a child. You made a mature decision to prevent the difficult situation.
What grief and loss resources have you considered pursuing? Here are some articles that might be of interest. https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-tru...rief-and-loss/ https://psychcentral.com/blog/on-losing-a-child/ https://psychcentral.com/lib/a-baby-...-should-we-do/
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