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Old Dec 27, 2017, 09:08 AM
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It's been over ten years since my son passed away. Is it just me am I grieving to long? It's not to the point where I can't function, work, enjoy life, but rather missing our talks, visits, longing to see him, sometimes crying. Is ten years to long for me to keep have these feeling?
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Old Dec 27, 2017, 07:50 PM
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Hello g68: I think the general consensus of opinion seems to be that grieving is very individual & it depends on a number of different factors. I'm not a mental health professional. But you said it's not to the point where you can't function, work, & enjoy life. So it doesn't sound to me as though you've slipped into a serious case of depression. However how you are continuing to feel is obviously of concern to you. So, in that case, perhaps spending some time with a grief counselor or therapist might help you to put your mind at rest. Here's a link to a nice article I found on the Legacy.com website with regard to the grieving process. I hope it helps:

How Long Is This Grieving Going to Last? - LegacyConnect

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Old Dec 27, 2017, 10:10 PM
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No. The grief of losing a child has no time limits. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Thanks for this!
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Old Dec 27, 2017, 10:26 PM
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I am so, so sorry for your tragic loss.

Are you in therapy?
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Old Dec 28, 2017, 08:15 AM
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I am so, so sorry for your tragic loss.

Are you in therapy?
No not at this time, but considering it.
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Old Dec 28, 2017, 08:17 AM
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Thanks to each of you for the kind words and advice.
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