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Jan 24, 2008, 10:19 PM
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My friend of 20 some years passed very suddenly... and of course I am not dealing with it well...
I feel enormous grief.... and yes anger.... she passed from the effects of an eating disorder... and.. yes.. I also have one..... and... yes... I tried so hard to help.. a beautiful wonderful person gone.. in a heartbeat... and people shrug.. and say "what a shame"... and I want to scream... and say.. where were you.. why would you not help me... help me to commit her.. where were you doctor.. why did you not involuntary commit her.. I can't stand the pain... of the loss... that did not need to happen... |
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#2
Jan 24, 2008, 10:35 PM
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((((((((( freewill )))))))))))
im so sorry you lost someone close to you. you tried to help...that shows a great amount of bravery and good heartedness since you also have an eating disorder. i hope you get through this well and safe. 
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Jan 25, 2008, 08:21 PM
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(((Freewill)))
I am so sorry my friend... 
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Jan 25, 2008, 10:54 PM
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>>> free <<<  Those that we have so long as FRIENDS And admire ,,,, Leave us as to In A Heartbeat Yes ,,,,, (((((( HUGS )))))). With time all the emotions will subside and What we Most are left With Is The LOVE They showed us as a FRIEND and The time we sat and just did mundane things Or went shopping together....................... free ,,, rest and Do try not to look for a blame thing for what is done is done My Friend ,,,,,,,,,,,, Fault is no ones most of the time ,,, and Memories are the true measure of the time you have spent with a SPECIAL Friend . And 20 years is a Storm of memories as the cloud lifts and they flood back. Take Care free. 
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Jan 26, 2008, 07:18 AM
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(((freewill))))))
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Jan 26, 2008, 11:05 PM
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No words, just
((((((freewill))))))) I too suffer from eating disorders and it is hell on earth. My heart goes out to you and her family. |
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#7
Jan 27, 2008, 08:37 AM
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I hope your grief can be lessened a little by knowing your friend's suffering has ended and your loss can help to find changes. If you scream to enough people changes can happen. Perhaps inspiration can come from the loss of your friend to other people with eating disorders to keep fighting it. Don't let it win. I hope we can all comfort you along the way, freewill.
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