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Elder
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Mar 05, 2008 at 07:27 AM
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It is two years tonight since our husband of 40 years dropped dead in the middle of a sentence  We did know he was terminally ill, but they said he had another year or two to live, they were wrong. We have put flowers & a candle in the room he died in  We are sitting a vigil until the time death was declared. __________________  ZORAH
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Mar 05, 2008 at 10:41 AM
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((((Zorah)))) I'm so sorry.
  BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open."  Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. 
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Mar 05, 2008 at 11:21 AM
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((((((((((( Zo Zo )))))))))) I am so sorry. Hold onto the good memories hon.We love you.
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Mar 05, 2008 at 11:54 AM
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>>>>>>>>>>>.... HOLDS ZO ....<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
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Mar 05, 2008 at 12:25 PM
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I'm sorry Zoran...
Anniversaries are such a mixed blessing sometimes. They mark important milestones in our lives and the passing of time from then to this moment. But I know he would want you to live this moment with all you are while fondly remembering those moments with you. I, like all of us who live and experience loss, mark the passing of souls with the birth of new. On anniversiers of the passing of loving souls in my life I plant a tree, bush or flower in the Earth so as to carry forward in life the loving energy I so enjoyed. It is wonderfull watching those memories grow as the moments pass... Be well, Lenny __________________ I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Mar 05, 2008 at 07:47 PM
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((((( Zorah )))))
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Mar 05, 2008 at 09:14 PM
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Zorah , know that we are with you as was said hold the good memories
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Mar 05, 2008 at 10:05 PM
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(((Zorah)))
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Mar 05, 2008 at 11:17 PM
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(((zorah)))) luv you hon.
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Mar 06, 2008 at 12:54 AM
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we took the flowers & a friend drove us up high in the mountains on the river & we threw them in the river & watched the water take them down there was no moon, but the stars were bright </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> There's a new day at dawn and I've finally arrived. If I'm there in the morning, baby, you'll know I've survived. I can't believe it, I can't believe I'm alive, But without you it just doesn't seem right. Oh, where are you tonight? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> __________________ ZORAH
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Mar 06, 2008 at 01:40 AM
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((( Zorah ))) I remember when it happened. I'm thinking of you
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Mar 06, 2008 at 02:16 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Zorah}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Mar 06, 2008 at 12:37 PM
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(((zorah))) i hope you feel better. i am so sorry
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Mar 06, 2008 at 04:24 PM
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Zorah,
I'm so sorry!
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Mar 06, 2008 at 11:34 PM
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Thanks (((((friends))))) we are ok, well alive anyway, & yes, we are sort of ok. this is a hard time of year for us. today is the birthday of our oldest son, he became a schizophrenic at 26 & today he turns 40. he is acting out, although he doesn't appear to have remembered either date at a conscious level. he has been refusing medication for 4 weeks, but he has promised to wait for the CAAT until they can see him in about 3 hours. We really hope he does, because this is the start of a long weekend here & help will be hard to access. sorry for raving on, but the son becoming schizophrenic was a major grief experience too 
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Mar 07, 2008 at 04:47 AM
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yeah, well the son rang up & told us he would never speak to us again
 or his brother either  the CAAT haven't found him yet  
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Mar 07, 2008 at 05:38 AM
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(((((((Zorah))))))) he will be back in the future if you don't mind me saying everyone will get a second chance......... my dad said good night to family went to bed and died. My mum misses my dad's breath with the beer smell... Does it mean you are thinking of the Antarctic too? and Im sorry about your son did he really mean what he said? My son is living with me again........so far so good........ Hoping for better times ahead for you...... love.....Joey/Julia __________________ be brave.faithful loyal and strong.Jjulia |
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Mar 08, 2008 at 12:28 AM
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Thanks {{{{{jjulia}}}}}} the mornings are the worst yes, it does mean we're thinking about the Antarctic too thinking about all the lost..... the son didn't mean it, he rang back  he's still running from the CAAT though it's silly coz they say if he'll just talk to them, they may not even order him back onto his meds, it turned out he hasn't had them for over 6 weeks we've found him for them THREE times already, they can do it on their own from here. They're HOPELESS  {{{{{Jjulia}}}}} {{{{{Jjulia's sons}}}}}} All best hopes for you & family
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Mar 08, 2008 at 03:29 AM
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(((((((((ZORAH)))))))))
__________________ Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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Mar 11, 2008 at 03:30 AM
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The hospital just rang to say they have admitted our son to the wards for observation. __________________ ZORAH
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