Second anniversary of husbands death

It is two years tonight since our husband of 40 years dropped dead in the middle of a sentence
We did know he was terminally ill, but they said he had another year or two to live, they were wrong.

We have put flowers & a candle in the room he died in
We are sitting a vigil until the time death was declared.

((((Zorah)))) I'm so sorry.

BJ

((((((((((( Zo Zo )))))))))) I am so sorry. Hold onto the good memories hon.We love you.

>>>>>>>>>>>.... HOLDS ZO ....<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

I'm sorry Zoran...

Anniversaries are such a mixed blessing sometimes. They mark important milestones in our lives and the passing of time from then to this moment.

But I know he would want you to live this moment with all you are while fondly remembering those moments with you.

I, like all of us who live and experience loss, mark the passing of souls with the birth of new. On anniversiers of the passing of loving souls in my life I plant a tree, bush or flower in the Earth so as to carry forward in life the loving energy I so enjoyed. It is wonderfull watching those memories grow as the moments pass...

Be well,

Lenny

((((( Zorah )))))

Zorah , know that we are with you as was said hold the good memories
Love
Angie

(((Zorah)))

You know how Clyde feels about you...PM if you need to talk

(((zorah)))) luv you hon.

we took the flowers & a friend drove us up high in the mountains on the river & we threw them in the river & watched the water take them down
there was no moon, but the stars were bright

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There's a new day at dawn and I've finally arrived.
If I'm there in the morning, baby, you'll know I've survived.
I can't believe it, I can't believe I'm alive,
But without you it just doesn't seem right.
Oh, where are you tonight?

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((( Zorah ))) I remember when it happened. I'm thinking of you

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(((zorah))) i hope you feel better. i am so sorry

Zorah,

I'm so sorry!

Thanks (((((friends)))))

we are ok, well alive anyway, & yes, we are sort of ok.
this is a hard time of year for us.

today is the birthday of our oldest son, he became a schizophrenic at 26 & today he turns 40. he is acting out, although he doesn't appear to have remembered either date at a conscious level. he has been refusing medication for 4 weeks, but he has promised to wait for the CAAT until they can see him in about 3 hours. We really hope he does, because this is the start of a long weekend here & help will be hard to access.

sorry for raving on, but the son becoming schizophrenic was a major grief experience too

yeah, well the son rang up & told us he would never speak to us again or his brother either
the CAAT haven't found him yet

(((((((Zorah)))))))

he will be back in the future if you don't mind me saying
everyone will get a second chance.........
my dad said good night to family went to bed and died.

My mum misses my dad's breath with the beer smell...
Does it mean you are thinking of the Antarctic too?


and Im sorry about your son did he really mean what he said?
My son is living with me again........so far so good........
Hoping for better times ahead for you......
love.....Joey/Julia

Thanks {{{{{jjulia}}}}}}

the mornings are the worst
yes, it does mean we're thinking about the Antarctic too
thinking about all the lost.....

the son didn't mean it, he rang back
he's still running from the CAAT though
it's silly coz they say if he'll just talk to them, they may not even order him back onto his meds, it turned out he hasn't had them for over 6 weeks we've found him for them THREE times already, they can do it on their own from here. They're HOPELESS

{{{{{Jjulia}}}}} {{{{{Jjulia's sons}}}}}}

All best hopes for you & family

(((((((((ZORAH)))))))))

The hospital just rang to say they have admitted our son to the wards for observation.

(((Zorah)))