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Mar 09, 2008 at 02:58 PM
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My heart is absolutely breaking right now. some of you know that I lost my first grandchild March 11 1996. Thursday morning at 6:30 I lost my third to miscarriage. almost 12 yrs to the day. 5 days apart. My daughter is hurting so bad and not one to allow me to comfort her. I was so looking forward to another little one to love and even spoil. I thank God I was able to see the baby. I think it actually helped somewhat.
My nephew and his wife are due 11 days before this one was due. it is going to be rough for my daughter and myself. sorry for the long post but I had to kind of get these feelings out somewhere. __________________ He who angers you controls you! |
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Mar 09, 2008 at 04:07 PM
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((((bebop)))) I am so very sorry for you and your daughter. I cannot imagine the sorrow you are feeling right now. Know that you are in my thoughts.
 BJ __________________ "The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open."  Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. 
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Mar 09, 2008 at 04:33 PM
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only thank you hon. I never thought this would happen. she had problems just about the whole time she was pregnant so I guess in the back of my mind I knew but geesh! now I have 2 angels in Heaven.
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Mar 09, 2008 at 05:56 PM
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Bee -
so sorry - life is so not fair and so not right sometimes - a lot of time actually. Nothing to say that can help - just know that others understand the pain you and your daughter have and wish it were not so. I always had a hard time letting my Mom comfort me too - don't know why - just did - even though I lived her more than life. Take special care of yourself. |
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Mar 09, 2008 at 08:28 PM
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(((Bee)))
I am so sorry my friend...
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Mar 09, 2008 at 10:13 PM
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pita thanks hon. I wish I had a super close relationship with my daughter.
clyde hon you are so sweet! thank you. __________________ He who angers you controls you! |
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Mar 10, 2008 at 07:17 PM
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 Holds Bop ,,, REAL TIGHT <<<< Will Not let GO ... 
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Mar 10, 2008 at 07:23 PM
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corkey thank you hon. sure feels good!
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Mar 10, 2008 at 07:25 PM
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((((bebop )))))))))
So sorry awwwww |
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Mar 10, 2008 at 07:35 PM
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ah thanks muffy. I am just happy this happened now instead of later.
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Mar 10, 2008 at 07:38 PM
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((((((bebop)))))))))))))
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Mar 10, 2008 at 08:04 PM
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thanks hon. it is much appreciated
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Mar 10, 2008 at 08:14 PM
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I'm so sorry hon!
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Mar 10, 2008 at 09:00 PM
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 ,,,>>>>. Is close BY and Watching,,>>>>>>...... As each minute passes ,,, and is still and ,"q u i e t",.Rest some through this Bop ,, and as the tears fall ,, and the guts hurt ,,,,  {(*{(*{{{{{{ Hugs with Sugar }}}}}}*)}*)}.
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Mar 10, 2008 at 09:09 PM
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corkey thanks sweetie. not alot of tears right now but yesterday there was! whew! __________________ He who angers you controls you! |
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Mar 24, 2008 at 05:18 PM
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my daughter finally got the pathology report back at the drs on friday. nothing was wrong with the baby. it would have been healthy. apparently she had some kind of infection but they are not sure which came first, infection or miscarriage.
she is hoping to get pregnant soon. there are 3 others in our family that are pregnant right now. all were due around the same time. __________________ He who angers you controls you! |
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Mar 24, 2008 at 05:46 PM
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(((Bee)))
So sorry my dear friend
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Mar 24, 2008 at 06:01 PM
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thanks hon.
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Mar 29, 2008 at 11:12 PM
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Oh (((((((((bebop)))))))))) . . . I can't imagine your sadness. Anniversaries of deaths are always difficult times. This one is rather tough for you all because children are just so wonderful...hopes were crushed. Your angels didn't suffer.
And I'm certain when timing is right she'll be pregnant again. Make sure she eats the green veggies for her folic acid! According to my doc ....Supposed to eat greens before getting pregnant (to ensure healthy eggs release). So no alcohol that month before trying nor the months trying to get pregnant. |
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Mar 30, 2008 at 06:24 AM
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thank you so much jennie. we are doing better now but still have those moments. I will let her know about the greenies. thankfully she doesn't drink! btw how is your little guy doing?
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