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Apr 02, 2008, 09:25 AM
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I lost my father to suicide in 82. I still miss him sometimes, now is one of those times. I've thought before it is like what people who lose limbs go through when they have to adapt to not having an arm or a leg. It feels good though that I can revisit this grief, and know that he isn't coming back. I have my memories...
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Apr 02, 2008, 09:28 AM
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((((((((stig))))))))   know we're all here for you if it helps |
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Apr 02, 2008, 09:30 AM
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It does help that you all are here. I guess I am disillusioned about mental health services, sometimes it just has to come from within, you know what I mean?
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Apr 02, 2008, 09:37 AM
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i do...but that's why i think a site like this is important...so you know there's others out there going thru the same, feeling the same...and we can all be here for each other. my kids lost their daddy the same way you lost yours so i DO understand your feelings on this one....and i'm only a pm away any time you need me. |
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Apr 02, 2008, 09:49 AM
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(((((((stig)))))))
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 Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You, too? Thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis visit my blog at http://gimmeice.psychcentral.net |
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Apr 02, 2008, 04:31 PM
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Thank you for the support, everyone!
It comes in phases, sometimes just gets triggered by some randomn event. I miss him and still love him, I can never really forgive him, but I have learned a lot about suicide and it's frequency, it is more common than I thought. People who do it just lost touch with reality somehow and it hits, I pray I never do the same, I saw how much damagew and pain it caused and also how the world keeps going unaffected by an act of suicide by anyone. We aren't that important to the functioning of the earth and society, individually. Sad but true... We are important to each other who know us and love us, I am soooo grateful for that. |
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Apr 02, 2008, 11:49 PM
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(((stig)))
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Believe you can and you're halfway there.
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Apr 07, 2008, 08:53 AM
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Losing the people that brought you into this world is a pain we can barely describe.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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#9
Apr 08, 2008, 07:09 AM
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Sometimes I miss him and the pain makes me want to give up in my life.
I told myself that I would have rather that he lived as a bum, than kill himself, like he did. SOmetimes I feel so mad about it, I want it to stop........... It will not though, so I wish it would. Suicide SUCKS! |
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#10
Apr 09, 2008, 07:51 PM
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((((((stig)))))))) let this out any time you have to and know that we are all here for you and we do understand and care.
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