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Old May 27, 2008, 10:44 PM
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My great grandfather passed away this morning. He had bone cancer. In a way I'm happy he is dead, because he was in a lot of pain and discomfort and it was horrible seeing him like that. But I miss him a lot.

I also feel really badly. I hadn't talked to him in almost a year and I feel like I should have. I should have talked to him more. But I didn't. So I don't know. I feel kind of responsible for it in a way.

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Old May 27, 2008, 11:06 PM
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(((loony_luna)))))) (((Great Grandfather))))) sad to hear of your loss loony, losing a dear one is never ever easy... i hope you will also be able to be thankful for those good times you shared with him as you suffer his passing...
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Old May 27, 2008, 11:06 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss. there is nothing you could have done hon. you are not responsible for his death. it was cancer. please don't blame yourself.
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Old May 27, 2008, 11:48 PM
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Great Grandfather Cool luna >> Ya came and spoke out how you feel .

I am so proud of you and the strength you have gained in time .

You Are a Good peep >> so share your memories and let others share with you the time you feel you missed out on .

luna ,,, Cancer is a creepy villian >> that takes those we Love away >> sometimes before we are ready for them to leave .

again ,, I Am So Gratefull to have had time to spend with you and I hope you know >> there are many here to lean on >>> {{{{ Hugs }}}} Great Grandfather Great Grandfather Great Grandfather Great Grandfather
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Old May 28, 2008, 02:10 AM
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((((((((((((((((((Luna)))))))))))))))))))))

Please don't regret not seeing your great-grandfather so much. Life takes us on our own journeys and less time is spent seeing the ones we love. Concentrate instead on your good memories together, I'm sure this is what your great-grandfather would have wanted and not for you to have any regrets ..... so sorry for your loss, i believe he will still be with you in spirit, hugs and care to you at this sad time, Jinnyann xoxoxoxoxo Great Grandfather Great Grandfather
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Old May 28, 2008, 08:26 AM
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(((loony_luna ))))))))))))))
Know your great grandfather is resting peacefully
He is prolly looking down on you wishing you to have peace
Its so hard to lose someone
Never your fault
It was the cancers fault
I would think hes very proud of you
and sending you his love
Hope things get better for you
I know the pain of loss
Greaving takes time
all you need
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Old May 28, 2008, 11:22 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((( loony_luna )))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry for your loss. Great Grandfather
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