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Old Oct 27, 2007, 11:43 AM
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too shocked to say more. now totally parentless before 40. lots of dreams died w/ her.
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 01:21 PM
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Oh, __zh, I'm so sorry; my thoughts are with you.
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 02:02 PM
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so sorry zh, just remember the good memories, and know you have us beside you
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i'm so so very sorry.........
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 02:47 PM
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I am so sorry. had she been ill?
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 02:49 PM
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__zh, I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 03:59 PM
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there are no words.. that convey how very sorry I am for your loss....
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 04:28 PM
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oh my gosh, _zh. I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you...
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 06:44 PM
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So sorry _zh. Ma died in her sleep last night = ( .... am thinking of you.

It's hard to lose someone any time and any way- but it does seem a bit more difficult when it's sudden and those last words don't get to be shared. My dad passed away while my mom was out with a friend. That "sudden loss" feeling is confusing, overwhelming/and underwhelming at the same time-- I couldn't grasp feelings for quite some time.

Please be gentle with yourself and try to let things/feelings go where they may need to-- understanding them will come on it's own time.

_zh- Ma died in her sleep last night = ( Ma died in her sleep last night = ( Ma died in her sleep last night = (

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Old Oct 27, 2007, 08:15 PM
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__zh,

So very sorry to hear and you have my thoughts and prayers...
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 08:26 PM
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I'm so very sorry for your huge loss. Your news brought tears to my eyes for you because I still miss my own mother so much.
Take gentle care,
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 09:12 PM
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<center>Ma died in her sleep last night = (</center>

My heart goes out to you (((hugs)))
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 09:21 PM
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I am very sorry to hear about your mother. My parents were both gone by the time i turned 28. I know how you feel, the shock and lonliness.
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 09:55 PM
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I am so sorry _zh. Please know that my prayers are with you.
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Old Oct 27, 2007, 11:18 PM
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Ma died in her sleep last night = (>>>>>... My thoughts to you and warmth for your heart...

After the many condolences are sent.

You shall know how much more your Mother meant.

And carry all in you ,of that mother you Loved,

And when you find P E A C E as it might fly above.

This is so true ,,,,it may resemble a D O V E ... Ma died in her sleep last night = ( Ma died in her sleep last night = (
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 02:28 AM
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 03:24 AM
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__zh, i'm so very sorry. you and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts.

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Old Oct 28, 2007, 01:51 PM
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zh..........i am so sorry , your in my prayers and thoughts
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 08:03 PM
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((((((((zh))))))))))

There is a new angel in heaven, a bright new star in the sky, she will always be in your heart and in your memories.

gentle hugs, I'm so sorry, take gentle care, Jinnyann xoxoxoxoxo
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 09:20 PM
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((((( _zh ))))

I am so sorry you're hurting and feeling sad. Ma died in her sleep last night = (
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 09:57 PM
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i'm so sory for your loss you will be in my thoughts and prayers(((((wmd)))))
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 10:55 PM
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sorry to hear of your loss __zh...
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 11:15 PM
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thank you all so very very much for the kindness as this was so sudden, unexpected and totally unforeseen.....absolute shock continues as brother and self make plans in two countries. anyone know anyone in the state dept who could help w/ renewal? bro's passport expired last month.

being in separate countries makes all this so much harder. day by day and moment by moment.

thank you all and bless you all for your support and heart warmth. we're so heartbroken and y'all are helping us heal.
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Old Oct 28, 2007, 11:25 PM
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Sending you positive vibes, _zh... Ma died in her sleep last night = (
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Old Oct 29, 2007, 05:42 AM
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I think he can go to the Embassy and the Consular can issue an emergency, limited validity passport. Ma died in her sleep last night = (
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