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Jan 27, 2009, 04:49 PM
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so lastnight my sister called me to tell me that my grandfather died (well he was like my grandfatehr hence the "FAKE") I feel horrible about it all becasue I was just thinking about how I needed to call him and see how he was doing but I just put it aside and procrastinated... the main thing that bothered me is that i just found out when everyone else in my family already knew... they never tell me exactly what is going on or has happened in the family, its not like Im going to go do something stupid, but i have a right to know who has died espechially if they are close to me. I dont even know when the funeral is or when anything is for that matter.
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Jan 27, 2009, 05:09 PM
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Sorry for your loss and emotional pain... may your family learn that is does not help to keep matters from the ones they love.
 
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Jan 27, 2009, 05:37 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss. my family has done that to me too and it stinks. can you call your family to find out arrangements?
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Jan 27, 2009, 06:21 PM
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i did and they wont tell me anything... its like they want to just lock me out or something.
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Jan 28, 2009, 03:38 PM
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can u check the newspaper online in the obits. that should tell you what you wish to know about the funeral.
i'm sorry for your loss. he must have been a very special person for you to feel sad.
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Jan 28, 2009, 03:45 PM
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Sorry for your grief with the loss. I think Foster Grandfather probably is a better way of thinking of him. You sound like you live away from the rest of the family and are left out of the loop. I hope they keep you informed.
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