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Old Feb 21, 2009, 03:02 PM
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He's going downhill rapidly...
It's so hard to watch this
knowing what's gonna happen soon
Knowing i'll be alone soon..
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Old Feb 21, 2009, 04:03 PM
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((blue)) my prayers are with your brother
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Old Feb 21, 2009, 05:37 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear how things are turning out now. I'm sure you are, but make your time with him as special as you can and let him know you are always thinking of him. Take care of yourself too though.
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Old Feb 21, 2009, 06:02 PM
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((Blue)) ((Jasper))

You are in my thoughts
I am deeply sorry that you are going through this..please take care of yourself, too.
No matter how small it may be, any act of taking care of yourself will give you strength to take one more step to get through the day.

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Old Feb 21, 2009, 06:07 PM
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He's going downhill rapidly...
It's so hard to watch this
knowing what's gonna happen soon
Knowing i'll be alone soon..
Yes, Blue. It is excruciating to watch a sibling go through this. I understand the incredible sadness that's weighing on you. To be by their side as they go though this is one of the best gifts you could ever give him. He's lucky to have such a loving, caring brother as you have been.
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 02:42 AM
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He's going downhill rapidly...
It's so hard to watch this
knowing what's gonna happen soon
Knowing i'll be alone soon..
(((((((((((((Blue))))))))))))))))))

it sucks to watch this in a loved one

spend every minute you can with him, so you will never feel regret or guilt

Take gentle care of yourself ((((((((((((Lucas)))))))))))))))

& may his passing be peaceful ((((((((((((Jasper)))))))))))))
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 09:51 AM
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 10:21 AM
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I agree, spend every moment you can with him, tell him everything you never got the chance to, play games (if he's up to it) and whatever else he would enjoy.

It is VERY hard to watch a loved one pass, my mom died last year and I took care of her til the very end.

He knows you love him, just be there.....that's the best you can do right now.

Sending you and Jasper hugs!
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 10:43 AM
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My Friend ,, Lucas ,, I lost so much sleep .... As Jasper rests , you rest , and when his time in this plain ends ,,, feel his strength ,, as he lets' you know ,, He is OK .
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 11:11 AM
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 07:10 PM
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Old Feb 22, 2009, 08:10 PM
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 01:36 AM
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 02:12 PM
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I'm so sorry blue. We care so much for you and your brother. You both will be in my thoughts. (((((((((((((((((Blue and Jasper))))))))))))))))
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Old Feb 23, 2009, 08:24 PM
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I'm so sorry Blue. My heart goes out to you.

I wish there was something I could say to help you through.

Every breath is that so much more special.

Stay with him.

Talk about the good times (I know you feel there aren't any) even if there are only a few. Talk about things that you and Jasper always talked about when you were together.

Hold his hand, let him feel you are there.

I'm glad others were able to recommend support groups. It is easier to survive a tragedy when you have others who have faced the same.

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Old Feb 24, 2009, 07:49 AM
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(((((((((((((((((Lucas)))))))))))))))))))

((((((((((((((Jasper))))))))))))))))))

we will be with you here, all of us will

you are not alone
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 07:58 AM
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Jasper passed away mondaymorning early, in his sleep
We were there
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Oh Lucas!!! Lucas, I'm holding you close, wishing I could help with pain. Sweetheart, I have no words like others will that will comfort you, just please know that I am so sorry for all the suffering and pain.
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:26 AM
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I am sorry for your loss. Words fail me right now. Please take great care of you. (((((((((( Blue ))))))))))
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:34 AM
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:34 AM
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:36 AM
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i am so sorry again words are not comming , now we are here for you

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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:39 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{blue}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} you are in my prayers
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 08:51 AM
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((((( Lucas ))))) I am so sorry. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
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Old Feb 24, 2009, 09:08 AM
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THINKING OF YOU & JASPER WITH LOVE,

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