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Old Mar 31, 2009, 04:58 PM
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My favorite aunt just died.

It's coming up on three months (April 3) since my mother died.

Life is so short. So fragile. Tick-tick-tick. Before I know it I'll be dead too.

I'm giving up caring about people. What is the point. Here today, gone tomorrow. Huge holes in the heart. Ouch.

I've wasted my whole life feeling sorry for myself. I've spent most of my time grieving for the dead.

I am tired of dead people. I am tired of me.

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Old Mar 31, 2009, 05:08 PM
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my sister ((orange)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
life is short, Im sorry for your loss
I know its so hard to care , when they all seem to leave
I know your heart hurts....
If i could fix it i would... my dear friend
I know your tired dear one
we all love you here........
tears in my eyes for you ...
you know I understand
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 06:41 PM
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 07:57 PM
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To stop caring and loving is to stop living and to stop living is to stop loving. Both goes together. Without one or the other there is not much left.

Live and love precious one.
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 08:23 PM
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oh orange! I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 08:28 PM
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I'm sorry for the loss of you aunt.
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 08:52 PM
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(((((OB)))))

aunt wouldn't want your grief to turn into self hate.
favorite aunt wants favorite niece to take it in stride,
honor her memory with love, honor the relationship with fondness.

use your beauty to create a tribute to sweet aunt
use your talent and give the best you got
use your gift to give thanks for what she gave you.

give to all some of what she gave to you
it will be a legacy
it will be your honor
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 10:28 PM
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oh honey I am so sorry. I know how you feel though. in a 2 or 3 yr span I had so many deaths in my family and friends it was unreal. I felt so numb that I could not even cry at times.
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Old Mar 31, 2009, 11:03 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((orange)))))))))))))))) I'm so very sorry. I'm here if you need a shoulder.
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 12:24 AM
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(((( ORANGE ))))

I totally understand what you're feeling....and I've felt it too. Why get so emotionally attached when they're just going to leave you someday....I get it.....but I also try to believe that it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.....
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 04:46 AM
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(((((((orange)))))) you're in my thoughts
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Old Apr 01, 2009, 11:21 PM
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Thanks everyone, for your support and words of wisdom.
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Old Apr 04, 2009, 11:00 PM
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(((( Orange ))))

Loss is heartbreaking and I'm sorry you are suffering.
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Old Apr 07, 2009, 10:54 AM
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i'm sorry that i did not see this sooner my friend.......you have every right to feel as you do.....i've known you for quite awhile and i know of all your suffering......way too much for one person.......this feeling will take time to pass but it will.......i love you and so wish that i could help you.....
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