[tryingtoo]

Hello
My dad was somewhat recently diagnosed with MS.
I have read up on what it is and what goes on in treatments, with the medications he's on, and what the symptoms are.
However, he doesn't realize how he can manage his symptoms. Is it just because he's heavily denying his health status, or is there something more?
Does anyone know how to try to help someone without being super upfront (he's very independent and doesn't like to be told what could help him or what would be in his best interest)
Also, does anyone know of any good coping mechanisms for MS? My dad mostly complains about the pain/numbness/tingling in his arms (any remedies?)

[gayleggg]

I had to take care of my dad but he had Alzheimer's, so it is a little different process. He was very independent and we had major battles, including my having to take his truck keys away and having to put him in a nursing facility. I would suggest getting counseling if you aren't already to help you work through the issues with your dad. It's so hard to look at the issues objectively when it's one of your parents.

[Little Lulu]

Since your father's diagnosis is fairly recent, maybe denial is part of the issue. It takes time and space for someone to come to terms with a big health issue like MS.

Probably the most important thing you can give him right now is your love and you are already doing that. Ultimately he might need to see a neurologist if he isn't already seeing one or a pain management specialist but only when he is ready.