[littlebitlost]

Today has sucked since before I got out of bed. I am sleeping all the time at the moment and not doing great AT ALL.

Then this morning, hubby doesnt have to work because of the rain (agriculture) and I say I'll be up at 7:15 after waking up at 6:30 and waking my baby.

My hubby is a gross morning person.

Just after 7 I hear them arguing in the kitchen and my daughter being *****y and clearly unreasonable. If she'd spoken to me like that I would've punished her. I don't take crap.

Arguing continues, I assume hubby can deal with it, and then in climbs my kid, crying and whinging and sobbing to me that she doesnt want him to be her daddy anymore and he should move out until he isnt too greedy to share.

I'm like what the hell?! And go, ok, what happened honey.

Turns out, Hubby had put toast in, and she wanted a piece. :/ And he said no. I point out that whoever puts the toast down, "owns" the toast, and she was unreasonable to expect him to share, and she just kept going on and on and on. I eventually get the shits with the child I love best, running down the man I love best, and send her to her room and say she may come out when she feels a little more reasonable.

She came out and apologised, and I made her say it to him too, but I am a mess. These are the 2 people I love the most, fighting and arguing over something ****ing stupid, and her saying that she wants him to move out hurt me SO much.

She has to be my first priority, and my ex doesnt give a damn about her. My husband has been a better father than my ex, and I love him.

If they are unhappy together I have to leave if I can't fix it. (((((((

I am a complete mess. I'm missing my first class of the week at my gym and just want to go back to sleep. I am hormonal and feel like crap and am holding back tears.

She also told me that whenever I sleep (naps or sleepins) that they don't get on that great, but I'm not sure how accurate that is, since Ive watched them together and she worships him, but is clearly having a bad day today. I am withdrawing again, and husband kept pushing me asking whats wrong.

I want to SI again. ((((

I have a pounding thumping headache now from the stress and want to medicate which hubby disapproves of, and is telling me to get up and go to the gym.

I have enough to deal with right now without this BS. Him and HER

Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this??

I feel entirely ill equipped to deal with this.

[cutebagaddict08]

I'm sorry you are going through this. and it defiently put in the middle of the situation with your husband and daughter. Would your daughter be agreeable to talking with a therapist? Is there any chance she has alot of anger and resentment built because of her bological father and she is taking it out on her step-dad and you. (I thought of this because when my parents got divorced, my sister and I were terribly mean to eachother, constantly fighting/bickering about the stupidist *****, and not till years later, I realized (while in therapy) that we both held so much emotions in when my parents got divorced, the only way we could let it out was take it out on eachother.)

[littlebitlost]

Thanks. Yes, she sees my psychologist. I think I'm gonna have her have a chat to her about this.