[ducttape]

My kids make me crazy.
Not having control. Or kids just not listening. I have a blended family.
Older kids being between 24 and 29 is it just me or can't kids stay focused.
Is it that hard to stay empolyed. Get out of the house and do something . And why is it my problem. Get a life kids. I love my life alot more then most. Its never been easy but the game go's on. Its the attitude of gratitude.
If you fake it long enough you can change. Why can't people figure that out.
I personally think we are all crazy. Just hanging on but thats ok. Attitude saves us. Attitude!!!!

[Victoria'smom]

I don't know where you live at those ages they need to pay rent (divide bills by # of bedrooms for there portion of rent) Every day they are not working get them up and off to labor ready about 1 hr. before they open. They will quickly find a job and keep it if they know you'll send them back there the next day. Not that it's a bad place but it's for people looking for "quick" money. What do you expect out of them? You can also have them each register at community action to help get work.

[nicoleb2]

Originally Posted by ducttape

If you fake it long enough you can change.

Some things, you cannot change no matter how much and how long you fake it.

The fact is these ADULTS are lazy, and they'll keep being lazy as long as they can. Start charging rent, make them help around the house. If they can't do that, then tell them they have to move out.