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If your son acted offensively toward you, then I suppose you would be disappointed and hurt.
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In a perfect world people would behave exactly how you would want them to, but it is not a perfect world. That desire to control things to such a degree, is not at all healthy. |
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Yes, I will step back and just be kind. I’m not even sure I want to be supportive.
Yes, I have problems with control and expectations. That’ll mess you up every time!
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Whatever you do don't get between him and the girlfriend.
Did I miss how old the boy is? Both of my now adult children left home early (17) to pursue their studies. By the time they were in their early 20s they had careers, nice homes, and lives of their own. I didn't seem to fit in anywhere and it was agonising. In my daughter's case she saw and moved in with an awful man. I made the mistake of saying something which I am sure resulted in her clinging to him and staying far longer than she might otherwise have. In my son's case he worked round the clock diligently pursuing his beloved career. Well, time has gone by. Fast forward five long years. We three are pretty tight now. |
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