Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #26  
Old Jun 13, 2014, 09:36 PM
InRealLife45's Avatar
InRealLife45 InRealLife45 is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jun 2014
Location: Virginia
Posts: 1,430
Quote:
Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
No, there isn't a good way, to say, if you don't do things my way, under my terms, so I feel it's under my interpretation of amicable, then boy oh boy, have I got a wrap sheet, with documented evidence so if I feel slighted, you lose your livelihood. ..

Yeah, i get splitting, but, um...

??

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
Unfortunately....yeah, it kinda is like that. Yes, it's bad and wrong and evil and I'll probably really regret it like I've regretted nothing else in my life...but I'll probably do it anyway. If we part ways angry.

Best to reconcile now so it doesn't come to that, so I don't do this in a fit of rage later. I'll just...try to make peace. I won't tell her why its important to me.

Is that better?

advertisement
  #27  
Old Jun 13, 2014, 09:41 PM
InRealLife45's Avatar
InRealLife45 InRealLife45 is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jun 2014
Location: Virginia
Posts: 1,430
Quote:
Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
No, there isn't a good way, to say, if you don't do things my way, under my terms, so I feel it's under my interpretation of amicable, then boy oh boy, have I got a wrap sheet, with documented evidence so if I feel slighted, you lose your livelihood. ..

Yeah, i get splitting, but, um...

??

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
Also, tho...I have a friend who is an MFT...she's listened to a number of sessions and wanted to report my T herself, the only reason she didn't is bc I asked her not to.

So I'm not making stuff up, maybe she does need to be censured. I didn't force her to do things that would get her into trouble with the licensing board.
  #28  
Old Jun 14, 2014, 08:19 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by InRealLife45 View Post
Also, tho...I have a friend who is an MFT...she's listened to a number of sessions and wanted to report my T herself, the only reason she didn't is bc I asked her not to.

So I'm not making stuff up, maybe she does need to be censured. I didn't force her to do things that would get her into trouble with the licensing board.
Sounds like your mind is made up.

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
  #29  
Old Jun 14, 2014, 08:20 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by InRealLife45 View Post
Unfortunately....yeah, it kinda is like that. Yes, it's bad and wrong and evil and I'll probably really regret it like I've regretted nothing else in my life...but I'll probably do it anyway. If we part ways angry.

Best to reconcile now so it doesn't come to that, so I don't do this in a fit of rage later. I'll just...try to make peace. I won't tell her why its important to me.

Is that better?
It's not wrong or evil. It's blackmail and manipulation.

Is what better?

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
  #30  
Old Jun 14, 2014, 08:28 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by InRealLife45 View Post
.

Is that better?
You know what, yes, it is better. Know how people sometimes look back and reflect on what they could have done differently?

That, becoming a psychologist was once a dream of mine.

I can see, how, something like this could have happened to me.

My life would have been ruined.

Standing at the crossroads, i see why it wasn't in my cards.

Wish you well.

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
  #31  
Old Jun 14, 2014, 12:41 PM
InRealLife45's Avatar
InRealLife45 InRealLife45 is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jun 2014
Location: Virginia
Posts: 1,430
Quote:
Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
It's not wrong or evil. It's blackmail and manipulation.

Is what better?

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
how is it blackmail or manipulation if i dont tell her? i think i can safely say id like to end on good terms without that being called manipulation or blackmail.

who wouldn't like to end on good terms?
  #32  
Old Jun 15, 2014, 07:18 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by InRealLife45 View Post
how is it blackmail or manipulation if i dont tell her? i think i can safely say id like to end on good terms without that being called manipulation or blackmail.

who wouldn't like to end on good terms?
You posted that, she stated she cannot treat you because of the insurance issue.
You posted you have things on her, to report and with that have her license revoked, I'm under the impression audio recordings?

What constitutes amicable, if insurance and money reasons aren't good enough?

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
  #33  
Old Jun 15, 2014, 07:55 AM
Anonymous37842
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I'm pretty sure that your attempts to get her in trouble will fail miserably, so you can either continue to pursue this petty attempt to cause her harm, or ...

You can quit wasting your time with all this fruitless nonsense and find another therapist who does accept your insurance and offers treatment for your particular diagnosis and issues.

It's your healing & recovery process, and the choice is yours!

Thanks for this!
junkDNA, likelife, lizardlady, precaryous, SnakeCharmer
  #34  
Old Jun 18, 2014, 12:02 AM
precaryous's Avatar
precaryous precaryous is offline
Inner Space Traveler
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: on the wing of an eagle
Posts: 3,901
Quote:
Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
Do you see where your borderline, gets in the way, right here, with this particular statement? If she contacted you, out of session, for several days in a row, after notifying you, then technically speaking, it wasn't without 'second thought'.

It does stink to be in your predicament. You are specifying a need and desire for therapy, and though this thread, you've had difficulty finding a treatment provider. That's not fair, to someone who is willing to seek treatment.

Just wanted to point out, where your illness, is getting in the way of this particular struggle.

Is she able to refer you to anyone, at all, who will take your insurance coverage? As a courtesy to you?
Just my opinion, I wouldn't want PresentT referring her...PresentT is angry...and probably doesn't have a lot of good things to say about her.
  #35  
Old Jun 18, 2014, 05:59 AM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by precaryous View Post
Just my opinion, I wouldn't want PresentT referring her...PresentT is angry...and probably doesn't have a lot of good things to say about her.
My experience, is that lists of names are given. Perhaps, i chose the wrong word? Recommend v. Refer?
How'd you see angry in the transcript, out of curiosity?

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk
  #36  
Old Jun 18, 2014, 09:49 AM
junkDNA's Avatar
junkDNA junkDNA is offline
Comfy Sedation
 
Member Since: Sep 2012
Location: the woods
Posts: 19,305
im pretty sure the Board in your state wont revoke or suspend her license just because ur a disgruntled client. reporting a therapist should be reserved for ethical violations. just because ur mad at ur T for being up front with u and honest doesnt constitute a report. they will probably look into it and get your Ts side of the story and find nothing to take action on. obviously ur just doing this to be spiteful and to hurt her like u feel she has hurt u.
__________________
  #37  
Old Jul 04, 2014, 02:29 AM
InRealLife45's Avatar
InRealLife45 InRealLife45 is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Jun 2014
Location: Virginia
Posts: 1,430
Quote:
Originally Posted by junkDNA View Post
im pretty sure the Board in your state wont revoke or suspend her license just because ur a disgruntled client. reporting a therapist should be reserved for ethical violations. just because ur mad at ur T for being up front with u and honest doesnt constitute a report. they will probably look into it and get your Ts side of the story and find nothing to take action on. obviously ur just doing this to be spiteful and to hurt her like u feel she has hurt u.
my reporting her, if i chose to go that route, would have nothing to do with being terminated for insurance reasons, and everything to do with the numerous ethical violations shes committed. and yes she absolutely would be in major trouble if i were to disclose those things.

however, at this point, I am not interested in reporting her for anything. im just saying if i wanted to i definitely have grounds.
Reply
Views: 6585

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:28 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.