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Old Apr 09, 2017, 07:00 AM
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Back in 2012, I was in so much debt, that I declared bankruptcy, and was discharged in early 2013.

When I did the mandatory credit counselling, I was told to wait a few years, and then if I was working to apply for a secured credit card with a low limit, use it every month and pay it off in full, as a means of rebuilding my credit rating.

So I applied last month to a financial institution that issues secured cards to high risk clients. I got a 500 limit.

I'm going to use it strictly for my monthly grocery order, since I set the money aside to pay for that every month, so I'll be able to pay it off.

I just have to be careful that I don't go on an impulse shopping spree with it and stick to my intentions to use it strictly for groceries.

But it does feel good to have a card again - like it's one more step in getting my life back to "normal".

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Old Apr 09, 2017, 07:27 AM
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I applied last month to a financial institution that issues secured cards to high risk clients. I got a 500 limit.

I'm going to use it strictly for my monthly grocery order, since I set the money aside to pay for that every month, so I'll be able to pay it off.
I strongly suggest getting rid of that card and switching to a debit card. The idea of having the credit card for emergencies or "just in case" or whatever seems logical, but then it ends up getting used for impulse stuff anyway. That bank was willing to trust you only because it already has your money, so now learn to trust yourself by putting that same amount in a regular bank account with a debit card and only use it for groceries.
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Hello there....I'm glad your feeling back on track....as long as you stick to your plan of groceries only things will go good.
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 06:58 PM
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Old Apr 11, 2017, 05:40 AM
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Congratulations! That's a big milestone. I defaulted in 2012, went on disability and haven't had a credit card since. I might apply for one like that, myself. All the offers I get in the mail are for high interest and have yearly or monthly fees. So I throw them away.
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Old Apr 11, 2017, 09:39 PM
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Congratulations! Prove to everyone (especially you) that you can do it.
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