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Old Jul 25, 2011, 05:54 PM
ijohno ijohno is offline
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How close are you guys with your best friend or buddy?

I feel as of this moment, my friendship with my best friend/ buddy is falling apart. I know usually us guys dont really have feelings for something like this, but its hard to see your buddy just walk away after being friends for so long. And even having him there for support from girl troubles, family problems and even school/ work issues.

What would you guys do in a situation like this?

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Old Jul 25, 2011, 09:50 PM
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Hi there ijohno...

What happened to start this drift? You can talk to him, you know. I would recommend it, unless there is something going on that the two of you really shouldn't be around each other much.

What's going on with him or you to make the two of you drift apart?
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Old Jul 25, 2011, 11:53 PM
ijohno ijohno is offline
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Not sure what happened, but it sucks. Um trying to talk is hard since he doesnt really talk. For sure I know talking about it would make it all worse.
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 01:09 AM
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I've been in a similar situation - best mates for the best part of 10yrs before it's dropped like a cold fish.
There is always a reason - whether it's a new girl or a natural end to any relationship.
It's frustrating, though.
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 01:54 AM
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Hi there ijohno...

What happened to start this drift? You can talk to him, you know. I would recommend it, unless there is something going on that the two of you really shouldn't be around each other much.

What's going on with him or you to make the two of you drift apart?
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I've been in a similar situation - best mates for the best part of 10yrs before it's dropped like a cold fish.
There is always a reason - whether it's a new girl or a natural end to any relationship.
It's frustrating, though.

Rough stuff we all go through.
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