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firefighter369 · Jan 20, 2013, 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by astenon

Don't give up guys. There's got to be someone out there for all of us. At least I've gotta hope there is.

I have a platonic friend that calls me "her angel in the sky" for everything I do to help her. I know I'm a good guy that can love and support the woman in my life, but where is she and how do I find her? I'm short, unattractive and have no social skills, so how can I get her to fall in love with my caring and loving personality when everyone nowadays puts so much emphasis on looks. At 40 I can only hope time hasn't run out on me.

theirs always hope my friend!

Timgt5 · Jan 20, 2013, 06:09 AM

Interesting discussion.

I think the attraction of "bad boys" comes down to the fact they are self confident. Self Confidence projects a sense of superiority. Some women out there consider the challange of taming a bad boy to be exciting, but in the end it leaves many empty and most seeking a lasting relationship will find their way back to the nice guy.

I think money can be a factor as well, more accutely when the economy is down like it it is, it becomes a matter of financial security. Joseph Anthony is right that money is not everything and that plenty of rich folk out there live empty miserable lives but having means, enables you to focus on fixing other issues.

The flip side of the coin, I know a very sweet young lady who cannot find a nice guy to go out with, which she wants more than anything in the world. She seems to run into nothing but nerotic losers with tons of emotional baggage. Kind of a shame really.

firefighter369 · Jan 20, 2013, 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Timgt5

Interesting discussion.

I think the attraction of "bad boys" comes down to the fact they are self confident. Self Confidence projects a sense of superiority. Some women out there consider the challange of taming a bad boy to be exciting, but in the end it leaves many empty and most seeking a lasting relationship will find their way back to the nice guy.

I think money can be a factor as well, more accutely when the economy is down like it it is, it becomes a matter of financial security. Joseph Anthony is right that money is not everything and that plenty of rich folk out there live empty miserable lives but having means, enables you to focus on fixing other issues.

The flip side of the coin, I know a very sweet young lady who cannot find a nice guy to go out with, which she wants more than anything in the world. She seems to run into nothing but nerotic losers with tons of emotional baggage. Kind of a shame really.

I guess this topic can go for both us and females. I bet girls wonder why guys seem like another spices and how we only go for "*****es" its crazy how we are so unalike and have so much in common and the basic need. to be loved. I know their is a girl out their for all of us. no matter what we are into. spiders,cars and firefighting theirs a girl out their for all of us

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