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Jan 12, 2013 at 11:30 PM
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 But in all seriousness. I think I am looking in the wrong places, so I have decided to stop looking for whichever woman I long for and I shall allow her to find me, or allow myself to stumble upon her. I'm done wasting my time feeling hollow all the time because I keep thinking about having someone to be with, or even have a chance with. |
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Jan 13, 2013 at 11:19 AM
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I think I have come to the same conclusion. For the last several years, I have desperately tried to find a woman that likes me and stressed about being single, but despite all the effort I have made I have been unsuccessful. The only women to have ever liked me are those that I met by accident or coincidence. So I am done wasting my time feeling hollow too. |
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Jan 15, 2013 at 06:32 PM
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One of the many things I learnt about women/dating/relationships,etc is the mutual rule.If a woman isnt interested in you,move on.When you do meet someone who does like you,thats the one to get to know.
If a woman does look at you,move on. This also applies when a woman looks at you and you're not interested,she needs to move on. When you look at a woman and she looks at you,thats a good start. You can then say "Hi,my name is......,I just wanted to meet you.The least she can do is say hi.She should introduce herself by saying her name.Then try have a chat to get to know each other. Remember the mutual rule: If its not mutual,move on.You're preventing the right ones from meeting you who would genuinely like to get to know you.This way you devote more time to finding the right ones and that gives you a better chance at success. Hope this helps. Regards Chris. |
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Jan 16, 2013 at 09:41 PM
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I would also suggest that you go to places where you have interests and find women that have similar interests to you.Join a cooking class.
What interests do you have? If you have a hobby or 2 you might find that there are women there that are interested in those things too.Just a thought.Just dont give up.You are already preventing women from meeting you as it is. Chris. |
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Jan 19, 2013 at 09:37 AM
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Don't give up guys. There's got to be someone out there for all of us. At least I've gotta hope there is.
I have a platonic friend that calls me "her angel in the sky" for everything I do to help her. I know I'm a good guy that can love and support the woman in my life, but where is she and how do I find her? I'm short, unattractive and have no social skills, so how can I get her to fall in love with my caring and loving personality when everyone nowadays puts so much emphasis on looks. At 40 I can only hope time hasn't run out on me. |
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Jan 20, 2013 at 01:23 AM
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Jan 20, 2013 at 06:09 AM
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Interesting discussion.
I think the attraction of "bad boys" comes down to the fact they are self confident. Self Confidence projects a sense of superiority. Some women out there consider the challange of taming a bad boy to be exciting, but in the end it leaves many empty and most seeking a lasting relationship will find their way back to the nice guy. I think money can be a factor as well, more accutely when the economy is down like it it is, it becomes a matter of financial security. Joseph Anthony is right that money is not everything and that plenty of rich folk out there live empty miserable lives but having means, enables you to focus on fixing other issues. The flip side of the coin, I know a very sweet young lady who cannot find a nice guy to go out with, which she wants more than anything in the world. She seems to run into nothing but nerotic losers with tons of emotional baggage. Kind of a shame really. |
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Jan 20, 2013 at 07:46 PM
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