What do I do when my sexual urges arise? I don't want to masturbate, but sometimes I just can't help it. Plus I have sought advice from people and they all say to call someone while temptation is strongest, but suppose it happens in the middle of the night and I have nobody to turn to... everybody else is asleep and I don't want to wake anybody up that early; they have to work. What can I do? I am an introvert and a lot of times I find myself masturbating and I don't seem to have any place to go. I need a lot of support from people but I'm not getting it.

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Originally Posted by heyitsme7

What do I do when my sexual urges arise? I don't want to masturbate, but sometimes I just can't help it. Plus I have sought advice from people and they all say to call someone while temptation is strongest, but suppose it happens in the middle of the night and I have nobody to turn to... everybody else is asleep and I don't want to wake anybody up that early; they have to work. What can I do? I am an introvert and a lot of times I find myself masturbating and I don't seem to have any place to go. I need a lot of support from people but I'm not getting it.

keep yourself busy when your urges arise. play video games write a story. anything. even clean your room. just keep yourself busy

Originally Posted by heyitsme7

I don't want to masturbate, but sometimes I just can't help it.

What do you mean you don't want to masturbate? I don't understand.

Originally Posted by Michael D.

What do you mean you don't want to masturbate? I don't understand.

I wondered about that too.
heyitsme7, is there something you find inappropriate about these urges or do they interfere with some activity?
Masturbation is fine and normal if you aren't doing it to the point of injury or engaging in an inappropriate place.
Is something like that happening? If this is a guilt or religion issue you might get more helpful responses in a different forum geared to those issues.
Good luck.