prostate cancer

Teddy Bear · Apr 03, 2018 at 05:44 PM

My dad just had his prostate removed he had cancer but now is cancer free. Just be aware that recovery sucks

daggy · Apr 03, 2018 at 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Teddy Bear

My dad just had his prostate removed he had cancer but now is cancer free. Just be aware that recovery sucks

Thankyou for sharing Teddy Bear . Iam in nomans land just now . Before op and before even thinking of recovery yet
I know the hazards but just hope for the best .

daggy · Apr 05, 2018 at 11:46 PM

Well had my op yesterday and so far pain has been horrid and all thetubes

Will
Wrap up later
Thanks my friends

Minnow · Apr 09, 2018 at 11:19 AM

Hope you have a speedy recovery!

daggy · Apr 09, 2018 at 04:10 PM

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Hope you have a speedy recovery!

Thanks minow the road ahead should be interesting to say the least .

daggy · Apr 29, 2018 at 07:17 PM

And here it is end of april and 4 hospital admissions later .i am still hooked up to tubes and fighting infection.
Had a sever allergic reation which led to a 3am rush to surgery which was canceled at the last minute.

Besides all that I havent begun to get my head around being free of this demon cancer.
I have been busy trying just to cope with the fight I have inside myself.
Just a simple hug
Its amazing all the little things you crave when you cant have them.

Minnow · May 01, 2018 at 09:01 AM

daggy, I hope this note finds you recovering in more comfort.

daggy · May 02, 2018 at 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Minnow

daggy, I hope this note finds you recovering in more comfort.

Unfortunately minnow everytime it looks like im winning I get something else to slow me down.
Hope this week finds a better solution.

daggy · Dec 17, 2018 at 08:13 AM

So here it is December 2018. Prostate went. Replaced with a good dose of ED with a side of incontinence just a little.
And PSA of 0 trying to find friends that sort of getting where I'm coming from is useless. Lost 2 to misunderstandings.
With all that and the mental stuff, you go through it is so hard a time for a man.
I hope I make it maybe.
Thanks for the advice along the way .

daggy · Jan 15, 2019 at 02:15 AM

Middle of Jan 2019 and have resigned to waiting.
Waiting for something good to happen
Waiting for a decent blood supply to come back.
Waiting for my imagination to turn off.
Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex.
Just waiting

daggy · Jan 21, 2019 at 12:42 AM

Ok fully fighting impotence now is there any place one can go to get some cyber release?
Coming up to 12 months after op and psychologically losing the fight

redCanine3669 · Feb 06, 2019 at 12:40 PM

"Waiting for my imagination to turn off.
Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex.
Just waiting"

I'm a 26-year-old virgin. The pain of not having sex isn't too bad for me. there's a lot in life, outside of sex.

daggy · Feb 07, 2019 at 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by daggy

Ok fully fighting impotence now is there any place one can go to get some cyber release?
Coming up to 12 months after op and psychologically losing the fight

If oh if all these medicines and injections worked. .just once.
Another urologist at the end of Feb.
My marriage is hanging by a thread even though I am stumbling from one thing to the other. 8 yrs after the first signs.
I don't know how many years this has to go on for but I can see why they put taking it out until a man is older.
Trouble is mine had to come out.
36 yrs of sex life and 10 lovers later is all I got.

Fighting the good fight i hope

daggy · Feb 07, 2019 at 11:37 PM

I am glad I wrote all those posts before and after. I made some mistakes along the way and probably still am going to.
Plus I found who to trust and who doesn't care.
Only have the mental fight to instant and whip.

daggy · Feb 20, 2019 at 10:33 PM

2019 feb
Prostate gone
Cancer spread
Another 3 months and then the fight begins
I hope i hold out mentally at least.
8 years of waiting and it came down to this

Pikku Myy · Feb 20, 2019 at 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by daggy

just wanted to get anyones stories or tips for going through the stages of prostate cancer (hope that sounded right)
Unfortunatly I have just been diagnosed with it and would like to hear what I have coming up for me soon . Not just the clinical terms but words from the heart of those of us walking the same road

Dad went thru 60 sessions last year. Now cancer free. He is 81.

daggy · Feb 20, 2019 at 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Pikku Myy

Dad went thru 60 sessions last year. Now cancer free. He is 81.

I do not think i will see 81 but only the good go young . Its the unknown that will get me i think

daggy · Feb 28, 2019 at 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by daggy

2019 feb
Prostate gone
Cancer spread
Another 3 months and then the fight begins
I hope i hold out mentally at least.
8 years of waiting and it came down to this

March

I can see what i does and the multi layers of strength it is going to take.
I truly do not have my heart in this..

daggy · Mar 06, 2019 at 09:27 PM

March 2019

So here I was thinking "oh good it's over"

WRONG

The world pees on me once again

Disappointment
is not a big enough word

seeing Things in black and white, on paper

Later i have to digest the what and where to go from here.

daggy · Apr 01, 2019 at 07:51 PM

April 2 2019

So it is lucky that I see the best urologist in the state to check on me in a few months to see if one thing isn't complicating the other.
Prostate went and so did cancer.
Now just have to see how much of infection I have gotten back tomorrow.

So it's lucky I see a urologist

But I could do without the incontinence that has come back and I wish my ED would go away.

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Teddy Bear Poohbah Member Since Nov 2015 Location: Dresser Wisconsin Posts: 1,230 8 1,026 hugs given	Apr 03, 2018 at 05:44 PM #61 My dad just had his prostate removed he had cancer but now is cancer free. Just be aware that recovery sucks __________________ 🐻
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Apr 05, 2018 at 11:46 PM #63 Well had my op yesterday and so far pain has been horrid and all thetubes Will Wrap up later Thanks my friends __________________
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Minnow Member Member Since Nov 2017 Location: Northeast Posts: 71 7	Apr 09, 2018 at 11:19 AM #64 Hope you have a speedy recovery!
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Minnow Member Member Since Nov 2017 Location: Northeast Posts: 71 7	May 01, 2018 at 09:01 AM #67 daggy, I hope this note finds you recovering in more comfort.
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Jan 15, 2019 at 02:15 AM #70 Middle of Jan 2019 and have resigned to waiting. Waiting for something good to happen Waiting for a decent blood supply to come back. Waiting for my imagination to turn off. Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex. Just waiting __________________
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Jan 21, 2019 at 12:42 AM #71 Ok fully fighting impotence now is there any place one can go to get some cyber release? Coming up to 12 months after op and psychologically losing the fight __________________
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redCanine3669 Member Member Since Feb 2019 Location: New York Posts: 307 5 397 hugs given	Feb 06, 2019 at 12:40 PM #72 "Waiting for my imagination to turn off. Waiting for the pain of not being able to have sex. Just waiting" I'm a 26-year-old virgin. The pain of not having sex isn't too bad for me. there's a lot in life, outside of sex.
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Feb 07, 2019 at 11:37 PM #74 I am glad I wrote all those posts before and after. I made some mistakes along the way and probably still am going to. Plus I found who to trust and who doesn't care. Only have the mental fight to instant and whip. __________________
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Feb 20, 2019 at 10:33 PM #75 2019 feb Prostate gone Cancer spread Another 3 months and then the fight begins I hope i hold out mentally at least. 8 years of waiting and it came down to this __________________
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daggy Grand Magnate Member Since Nov 2008 Location: D`Aguilar Queensland Australia Posts: 3,544 16 63 hugs given	Mar 06, 2019 at 09:27 PM #79 March 2019 So here I was thinking "oh good it's over" WRONG The world pees on me once again Disappointment is not a big enough word seeing Things in black and white, on paper Later i have to digest the what and where to go from here. __________________
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