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#1
Jan 25, 2011, 10:25 PM
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I tend to stew about people who upset me. I stew about it for hours.
Anyone here have the same issue? I have been diagnosed with OCD but for the most part I am better, thanks to the SSRI's I am currently taking but this is one thing that I have not gotten better at all is how I allow others to upset me so much. The reason why is cause of extremely low trust in others cause I have been hurt so badly online and offline. |
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Jan 25, 2011, 10:30 PM
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I am like you that I stew over people who upset me. I am working on it but things people say that hurt me come to my mind when I least expect it. I am then disturbed about it all over again. I have a hard time trusting them after they hurt my feelings. Reminds me of the saying, "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." Just letting you know you aren't alone.
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Jan 26, 2011, 01:23 AM
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((faylowell)) Thank you so much for your wise kind words. Bless you and I hope things work out for you too.
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Jan 26, 2011, 03:34 PM
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Hi feel the same way too. I have been hurt several times and it is hard to trust just about anyone at this piont. I am trying to get over it but it is so hard. I cannot stand people hurting me i get so streesed about it.
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Jan 26, 2011, 03:40 PM
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I feel the same way too, I have been hurt so many times. Even though I am slowly beginning to trust people again, It is hard to forget the past and i am always careful. |
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Jan 27, 2011, 11:00 PM
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 Thank you as well for your advice sheri, I have a hard time trusting people as well.
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Feb 01, 2011, 12:31 AM
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Trusting people is way hard, as is letting people get close to me (emotionally). I definitely stress what others think and little things that people say - sometimes it keeps me up at night. I really hate feeling so vulnerable to what other people say and do... I guess some people are more susceptible to get hurt than others (or perhaps others are just better at hiding their hurt)
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