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Old Apr 30, 2017, 10:59 PM
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There back ...the bad thoughts that am going to hurt my nieces baby ...the one she is carrying managed to be ok with her first little one who is now 2
she an angel but i am too scared to hold this little one and this little one maybe born early if my nieces health dont improve soon she got 9 weeks to go
she already has low blood pressure and she fainted the other day and was in hospital for a few hours while my sister looked after her 2 year old
am scared i cant hold this little one when it comes everyone expects me to have pics taken of me and the little one...i cant last time i did but this time i cant my sister and mother will want pics ...i dont want to hold this baby

its so bad that i feel like killing myself before she is born
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Old May 01, 2017, 11:06 AM
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I find that the more I care about someone, the worse my intrusive scary thoughts are about that 'someone.' I use the technique (link in my signature) to cope with intrusive thoughts.
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Old May 02, 2017, 10:04 PM
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There back ...the bad thoughts that am going to hurt my nieces baby ...the one she is carrying managed to be ok with her first little one who is now 2

she an angel but i am too scared to hold this little one and this little one maybe born early if my nieces health dont improve soon she got 9 weeks to go

she already has low blood pressure and she fainted the other day and was in hospital for a few hours while my sister looked after her 2 year old

am scared i cant hold this little one when it comes everyone expects me to have pics taken of me and the little one...i cant last time i did but this time i cant my sister and mother will want pics ...i dont want to hold this baby


its so bad that i feel like killing myself before she is born


It sounds like you've never acted on your intrusive thoughts before. So why would next time be any different? Or the time after that. Or the next; and so on.

You will be okay my friend
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