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Old Aug 29, 2009, 07:22 AM
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Missing a dear friend who has been "there" for me for 4 years.
I was the person who came and went
who distanced
who "disappeared".. often for months
I have trust issues
Now they have lost their internet..
and their phone is down too
I know I didn't do anything wrong, nor did they perceive me as having done so.
Nor was I too clingy or any "bad" thing
And they have gone.
Life sucks.
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 07:40 AM
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hey fuzzy if there internet is gone - it may come back? if they have given it up then maybe they will get their phone back on?

maybe this is just a pause....not an ending.....

I hope so
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 08:55 AM
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 09:16 AM
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It is loney to miss a friend. I know this feeling. I am glad that you know and understand that it was nothing you or your friend did but circumstances instead. As Phoenix said, if the internet is gone, there is always a chance she will get it back. I do hope so for you.

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Old Aug 29, 2009, 10:53 AM
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did you guys exchange each others physical addresses so you could at least send a card or write to each other? if not do you know their first and last name, if yes to the name but on to the address you could always look up their address online if you know the state they live in..jsut a suggestion..good luck
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 11:42 AM
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I send fuzzy bear hugs of comfort and support, Your Friend, Kkris101
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 12:10 PM
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 12:23 PM
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(fuzzy)))))))))))))))) such a good friend....can you send them a letter?
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 12:25 PM
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Hello (((Fuzzy))). Try to see things in a positive manner. The Person must have cable, internet, and Phone hooked up through the same line. This person has Not Abandoned you, just having problems being on line at this time. Try to hang in there (((Fuzzy)), and try to stay safe with this problem until it gets resolved. Take care Fuzzy. PM anytime. Soidhonia
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 01:43 PM
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Queen Fuzzy Bear, do they have a new home address that you could send them letters to? If not, maybe a friend of theirs might have it?

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Last edited by Zen888; Aug 29, 2009 at 04:02 PM.
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 03:00 PM
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I too hope you can get back in touch soon
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Old Aug 29, 2009, 07:17 PM
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many hugs to you... I know what it's like to see friends go away, both by my fault and not by my fault at all. And it's sad and horrible and I'd never wish it on anyone. Wishing you the best of luck with this.

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