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Old Nov 22, 2009, 09:54 PM
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can some one please help ME!

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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:20 PM
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What can we try to help you with sweetie??
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:25 PM
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What can we help with?
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:25 PM
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What can we try to help you with sweetie??
im getting tierd of life i feel like im not wanted and im holding people back in life im so lonley my head hurts i dont now how much longer i can last i miss my grandma
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:28 PM
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Im so sorry you don't feel well. I know how hard it is to lose a grandma. You could google to find a local crisis line or national crisis line. If you wait a minute I will find one for you. It really can help to talk to someone on the phone.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:33 PM
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http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=37207 this is suicide resources or you can click on the resources button to find some numbers. I really hope you take advantage of these. Or maybe go into support chat.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 10:59 PM
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I dont really like the phone
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:11 PM
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Do you have a therapist? Maybe you could get an apt. with them or if your in the US there is usually mental health clinics you can walk into to see some one. Again though for right now help since it is late I would recommend a hotline to help you through this. Even PC support chat room can help, but we are not professionals so you really need to consult one about what you are going through.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:13 PM
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i live in canada i do have a therphist but i dont see her till later and i dont now how to do that chat thing yet i dont now much about this web sit
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:15 PM
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towards the top of the page there is a button that says chat and it usually has a number next to it you press on that then there is a list of rooms and you can then choose support.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:20 PM
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my computer is being stubern and wont let me the screen just turns grey its getting me fustrated
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:24 PM
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Im sorry its not working for you. Please do call a hotline or talk to a family member I am sure it will help.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:27 PM
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I understand how you feel. My grandmother passed away 14 years ago, but you'd swear it was almost yesterday. She loved me and I knew it was honest, genuine love. Broken, damaged and all, she loved me. It was hard for all of us. I start to think that I'm just bringing people down too, but honestly, we're only holding ourselves back. The dark cloud comes and makes it hard to see clearly. I like to think that she's watching out for me, from somewhere and she wouldn't want to see me suffering; torturing myself. It's hard though, I know, the loneliness grabs ahold and won't let go, at least that's what it feels like. I feel utterly alone right now, that's why I started looking for groups online. Try to be kind to yourself.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:30 PM
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thank you for ur help i feel like im being a burdin on you
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:31 PM
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red you are no burden at all
we are all here to support you.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:32 PM
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on me? no your not at all. I volunteer at my local grief center so I do this alot and it does not bother me at all. I really like to help people. I am just sorry you wont call a hotline and that you cant get into chat.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:35 PM
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i wish life was not this hard the only thing i like about life is meeting nice people like u other then meeting nice people i dont really have much to look forward to in the futer can i add you as a friend ?
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:37 PM
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of course you can add me as a friend. Have you tried maybe distracted yourself so you dont always think about things that make you sad?
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:40 PM
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there is not much i can do i dont have friends or enything like that i would sit and do other things but i have adhd so its hard the only thing iv been doing lately is sleeping all the time i would like to say something its not thanks giving here but i can see that it is there so happy thanks giving
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:41 PM
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i just dont now how to add you as a friend
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:42 PM
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Thanks, yeah thanksgiving is this thursday. Maybe you could play an online game to get your mind off of things?
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:43 PM
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ill add you hold on
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:43 PM
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thats a good ideathank you
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:44 PM
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I did it and your welcome.
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Old Nov 22, 2009, 11:48 PM
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When I start thinking about the future and worrying about things that haven't even happened and my not even happen, I try to take a breath and then focus on living in 5 minute intervals.
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