[kerria]

This morning my h. woke me up at 6am for church . We had two hours to get ready - more than enough time but then became so angry out of nowhere. We hate that- it feels like everything is terrible when someone unexpectedly just get's angry. Then i couldn't go anywhere or even get ready because we were afraid to go into the car with him. He drives crazy when he's angry and i never want to put myself in that postion again.

Then he went through my purse- taking out the checks , saying he needed one for the offering. i don't care about the checks but i feel so violated . Like i can have nothing private that he can't have.

i know we overreact but it feels so terrible inside. it's so triggering and everything is so out of control when someone gets angry for no reason - without warning and then go through my purse. i feel like i can have nothing that he can't take
i hate my life so much.
kerria

[nightdream]

I'm sorry dear one!

I don't know what to say except that I hear you and I care!

Hugs if you want them.
nightdream

[kerria]

Thank you Pat, Ryan and Nightdream.

kerria

[nothemama8]

Kerria, my hubby did this one time also, but the girls fixed him, *we* left an old purse laying on the table and when he went to get something out of it , all he got was a handful of handcream , now he asks before going into my purse
Angie

[(JD)]

You feel violated because you have been. I don't know the answer for you... but for me it would NO WAY NO MORE. If you try and work it out and it doesn't work out then get out. ((hugs))

[Wants2Fly]

Hello Kerria --

I am more concerned by the unexpected angry outbursts than about him riffling through your purse. Are you seeing a therapist? This will give you ongoing help for dealing with this disturbing situation in a deep way.

[Mahali]

I agree that you have been violated. You have the right to privacy. You also have the right to not be yelled at for no reason.

Keep yourself safe.

place

[jmo531]

((((((((((((((KERRIA)))))))))))))