[neri]

"The harder you fight to hold on to specific assumptions, the more likely there's gold in letting go of them." -- John Seely Brown

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I worked so hard trying to find appropriate one, i hope that works

I know I've also participated in the "bickering", but for now: *neri takes a deep breath... and lets go*
And I promise that for now on, I for my own part will try to maintain peace on the Forums

[LMo]

Excellent wisdom, my dear!

Here's an add-on...

"you know what they say happens when you "assume"..."

[kimmydawn]

((((((((((((((neri))))))))))))))))) how special and appropriate. ty for that.

kd

[(JD)]

Very good neri. And, if you should "hang on" from time to time, that's ok too... it's a process we are involved in, not a finished result.

[kimmydawn]

very well said, sky! awesome thread!

kd

[darkeyes]

Great post

Thanks for sharing this.

Sincerely,

DE

[dayzee9]

(((((((((((((((((Neri)))))))))))))))))

Yo! I, too am guilty of creating a lot of negative feelings/posts; and according to my "religion" teaches about using "self as a santuary" Chew on this

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</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> "Not everyone has easy access to this inner haven, but have no doubt that it is there. It is often necessary to spend time alone in order to find yourself. Make a conscious effort to take time to explore your inner space. Even if only for 5 minutes a day, close your eyes and breathe deeply, turning to your inner being....Greet yourself as a trusted friend and relax into the experience of just being there. The more time you spend in this space, the more you will understand and trust yourself............therefore,remind yourself; No matter happens, I will always love and support myself w/ positive self-affirmations....in that way, no matter who rejects me, I will always be there for myself........And as the world around us is always changing w/i every second, one thing we can always count on is our relationship with ourselves...everything/everybody who we rely on, sometimes on a daily basis because it is familiar and "safe"..it is subject to the law of impermanence................. DAYZEE9 w/