[Renovation]

I am so frustrated that a package that was supposed to be sent to me still hasn't been sent. I am so pissed off. Why does life has to be so difficult sometimes? I am deeply concerned that it is taking these people so f---ing long to get me this package. First it's one thing, then it's another. It will be two weeks tomorrow that we first agreed they would send the package.

So f---ing frustrating. On Friday, the person who has the package said they were traveling and that they would send it out as soon as they got in this week and send me an email to notify me. They are a couple of hours ahead of me, so they have had ample time to send the package. I am tired of getting put off. On the one hand, I am relieved that they agreed to send it. On the other, I can't do anything until I get it and I won't rest easy until I have it in my hands.

Moreover, I just got a call and a text from a former colleague asking me for my address because he needs to send me something. What the h--- does he need to send me? I can't imagine it is anything good. And, my worst fear, is that it might be a legal matter. This feels like one giant mess. I feel like I'm being pummeled and there is not a lot I can do to fight back. I have to wait to get a response from the person who is supposed to send me the package.

I can't concentrate on anything else until this issue is resolved. At this point, I could be on my way to starting my business but instead I feel like I am just wasting my time. On top of this, I am still waiting for a definite yes on a part-time job but even if it does come through I won't get any cash until April, which could put us in a difficult financial situation in the meantime.

My life has been really hard for the last 12 months and just when I thought I was starting to see a little bit of light at the end of the tunnel, this a--hole comes around and is making my life miserable. Leave me alone! Just let me go on and try to make a living. He has a job and a good one at that why be such an a--hole.

[pegasus]

Ok breathe! (((((( Renovation )))))))

Let's get this in perspective, you are talking about a package and in the great scheme of things it really isn't worth having a heart attack over right? Chase it up, ring around, check it is on it's way and then know that you have done all you can. Then go for a walk, blow the cobwebs from your brain and realize you are ok!

[lynn P.]

I understand you're frustrated and under pressure right now. We are small business owners and recently went through a very intensely stressful time with our business. Thank God everything worked to our favor and things are stable for now, but we still depend on the economy to survive. My husband went from fearing we would lose everything, including our house to a week later, everything improving.

Can you send this associate a friendly reminder? Can you call the other man and ask him what he's sending you? Then it's just a matter of waiting and trying to relax. You mentioned before, you're right on the verge of starting a new business, so you need to hang onto this hope. In a matter of a week my husband went from feeling completely devastated to having hope. I hope it all works out for you.

Don't you just hate when things like that happen. I hope everything will work out. I just had a very frustrating thing happen to me too. I feel in love with this camera at my local WalMart but they said they don't have anymore so they called another WalMart and they said they have 4 of them so I drove all the way there is rush hour and it took forever. When I got there they told me they haven't had any for a couple months. What a long ride home it was. I was totally ticked off. - Dennis

Originally Posted by Renovation

I am so frustrated that a package that was supposed to be sent to me still hasn't been sent. I am so pissed off. Why does life has to be so difficult sometimes? I am deeply concerned that it is taking these people so f---ing long to get me this package. First it's one thing, then it's another. It will be two weeks tomorrow that we first agreed they would send the package.

So f---ing frustrating. On Friday, the person who has the package said they were traveling and that they would send it out as soon as they got in this week and send me an email to notify me. They are a couple of hours ahead of me, so they have had ample time to send the package. I am tired of getting put off. On the one hand, I am relieved that they agreed to send it. On the other, I can't do anything until I get it and I won't rest easy until I have it in my hands.

Moreover, I just got a call and a text from a former colleague asking me for my address because he needs to send me something. What the h--- does he need to send me? I can't imagine it is anything good. And, my worst fear, is that it might be a legal matter. This feels like one giant mess. I feel like I'm being pummeled and there is not a lot I can do to fight back. I have to wait to get a response from the person who is supposed to send me the package.

I can't concentrate on anything else until this issue is resolved. At this point, I could be on my way to starting my business but instead I feel like I am just wasting my time. On top of this, I am still waiting for a definite yes on a part-time job but even if it does come through I won't get any cash until April, which could put us in a difficult financial situation in the meantime.

My life has been really hard for the last 12 months and just when I thought I was starting to see a little bit of light at the end of the tunnel, this a--hole comes around and is making my life miserable. Leave me alone! Just let me go on and try to make a living. He has a job and a good one at that why be such an a--hole.

[Stranger2]

I agree with the OP that you should get out for a walk and fresh air..You can't do anymore than you already have.. Just give it a little time.. If it still doesn't show then call this person back..I hope it shows up soon so you can relax..